I am an emotional anchor, one sentence can break the defense of the whole network

Raymond Lam: "People on the comments said they couldn't follow my train of thought. It might be the same thing. I criticized the parents one foot and then blamed the children the next.

I feel like I don't understand it.

That's not the case, brothers.

When you listen to things, you can't just listen to the problems, nor can you just listen to what netizens say.

You need to understand one thing.

Anyone who comes here to talk about a problem must be very emotional.

As long as there are emotions, people will magnify problems infinitely.

This is just like when your buddy or best friend complains to you about her partner, and you get angry and criticize her partner as being nothing.

When you finally meet, you realize something is wrong.

It’s not like what my bestie said.

This is the problem of emotion amplification.

That’s why you often say that I’m clear-headed and that I hit the nail on the head.

That's because I never listen to their stories, because I know that a large part of it is just their psychological activities, not the truth.

In fact, each of us is the same. When expressing something, we will automatically edit it.
Choose the information inside.

Reset the relationship between them.

Anything that he likes will be magnified, and anything that he rejects will be deleted.

It's like he's remaking a story and telling you.

Then you believe it is true and express your deep emotion.

That's called brainless.

That's how people are.

So remember, there is no absolute truth in what others say.

then what should we do?

I only listen to the details.

The detail is that her father treats her very well and they live a happy life.

How could such a good father not feel sad when seeing his child being beaten?

So in the end,

It was this sister who magnified the emotions.

If I couldn't stay awake, I would easily be led into the ditch by her.

Otherwise, I would be like you, when I heard that she was slapped by the teacher, my father didn't support him,

Good guy.

You all started cursing on the public screen.

Insulting other people's father in various ways.

I am convinced too. "

. . . . . . . .

On the barrage.

"It's over. I'm brainless (covering my face)."

"Me too (grin)."

"In conclusion: If you have something to say, keep it to yourself and don't let Big Brother laugh at you (dog head)."

Hahahaha.

"Big brother is awesome. Watching his live broadcasts makes me feel like he is helping me grow my brain (laughing and crying)."

“People tend to speak from their own perspective (thumbs-up).”

"So what we see is not the truth, but the perspective (sunglasses)."

Been taught a lesson.

. . . . . . .

Lin Feng: "Speaking of which,
Again.

Everyone has to bow to power sometimes.

Look at me now, I am in this state now. I tell you, who knows, I might meet a great man someday, and I will have to bow my head.

When faced with some things, everyone will feel powerless sometimes.

You can't say that I can resist everything and defend my rights.
Very difficult.

Normally, after you enter society, you can earn money as long as you keep your head down. This is the simplest thing.

Many times, even if you lower your head and put down your self-esteem, you still can’t make any money.

This is the hardest part.

Can you understand?

The customer may scold you or scold you, but you just can't earn his money.

There are so many people who deliberately make things difficult for you.

There are many people who make it impossible for you to earn their money.

Then you will find that even though I have suffered a lot, I can still make money, which is a great honor.

Adulthood is probably a kind of compromise.

Who wasn’t full of passion when we were young?
Sometimes when we are faced with something, we realize that being tactful and not dealing with the problem so bluntly is actually a form of self-protection.

Because sometimes, whether you resist or you are too hard-nosed, in the end you will find that nothing can be changed and you are the one who gets hurt.”

. . . . . .

On the barrage.

"It's a great honor to be able to earn money just by lowering your head (crying to death)."

“I guess adulthood is a kind of compromise (bursts into tears).”

"I used to not understand those who compromised easily, until I grew up and realized that it was the helpless reality. If you can't be yourself, then just live your life in a comprehensive way (sigh)."

"Later I realized that life is what everyone wants, but not what I want (covering mouth and crying)."

"Adult compromise is half understanding and half letting it go. So many things are not really solved in the end, but just let it go."

So true.

. . . . . . .

Raymond Lam: “It’s like when you were young and someone provoked you or bumped into you on the road, what did you look at?
I started working right away.
Just normal.

But now that you are older, with children, a family and a career, you can no longer fight with them.

If you are really arrested, what will happen to the child?
So when someone asks you on the street what you are looking at, you should just think, forget it, sorry, sorry, just apologize to them.

In the eyes of the child, he will think that his father is so cowardly and it is so embarrassing.

In fact, it is Dad who bears the burden of life with his shoulders and dignity, you just don't know it. He is also enduring humiliation and taking some things into consideration.

You say that if he didn't think about the child, of course he could do whatever he wanted and be bold enough.

But because you are here, your father may apologize to them, compromise with them, or even beg for mercy.

But in a sense, it doesn't mean that he is really a coward.

He just took on the burden of life.

It has provided some security for our lives and created a better life for us.
This is also a manifestation of responsibility.

You can't say that I don't care about anything, I don't care about my wife and children, I just go up and fight with them.

Then you have no sense of responsibility, you are a reckless person.

It’s just like many people who came on the microphone and said that their fathers had been in prison since they were young.

His father fought with others and finally got himself in jail. Do you think he is a man of integrity?

It's actually quite irresponsible.

He doesn't care about his wife and children.

He got into a fight with someone and was detained.

Finally, his wife ran away with someone else, and there was no one to take care of the child.

The child hated him forever.

Is this true?
So you will see that mediocre father, or the father you think has no backbone and dares not to confront others,
In fact, in a sense, he is also a mountain.”

. . . . . . .

On the barrage.

"That father who looks so ordinary and even spineless is actually a mountain in a sense..."

"Oh shit, I can't take it anymore, I'm about to burst into tears."

"I've had this resentment stuck in my heart for years, and suddenly I feel so stupid. I'm sorry, Dad. I miss you, sob."

"What you think is a weak and cowardly decision may be the most reasonable choice made by your father after considering his wife and children, but he won't say it and silently bears everything..."

"He used his own compromise to protect the interests of his entire family (covering his mouth)."

"No, brother, I'm here to eat the watermelon, don't hit me, wuwuwu."

. . . . . .

Raymond Lam: "Many mothers are the same. Some people say my mother is too frugal and always wears old clothes. Whenever I buy new clothes, she never wears them and even returns them.

Sometimes these two people can quarrel fiercely over this.

My mother is so unenlightened.

Speak the truth,

Your mother feels sorry for you.

Who the hell doesn’t want to wear new clothes?

Who doesn’t know that it’s better to dress beautifully?
Who doesn’t want to have a beauty treatment?

The problem is that I have no money.

She also knows that it is not easy for you to make money nowadays, so your mother will not spend your money casually.

Your current clothes are still wearable, you are still young, and it’s not easy for you to start earning money. Mom wants you to save more.

How much do you think a piece of clothing costs? You think your mother is ungrateful.

This is all true.

So sometimes you feel that the ungrateful mother, the relatively cowardly father,

Maybe they are the ones who bear most of the burden in life, and they are just holding you up."

. . . . . . .

On the barrage.

"An ungrateful mother... a somewhat cowardly father..."

"It's my first time here. The host gave a great talk. You gave my father a boost (thumbs-up)."

"I finally understand my father's heart, but it's too late. I don't have a father anymore (crying to death)."

"I don't have a dad either."

. . . . . .

Lin Feng: "You see other people's dads always have a mobile phone in their hands and call a group of brothers to help them.

Look at my dad again, why is he so cowardly?

I still apologize when I bump into someone.
Even though someone was bullying me, he went to apologize to the bully's father, shook hands with him, and told him to get along well with his classmates.

It makes me feel embarrassed when my dad says this.

Then when you become a father, you will find that is the best effort a father can make.

You will feel that your mother is very out of date. How could she not keep up with the times when you were adolescence and how could she be so unfashionable?

You will find that if the mother is really willing to spend money, she can also buy cosmetics and dress herself up beautifully.

There are also people who came on the microphone in my room and said that there are mothers who only care about their own beauty and don’t care about their children’s life or death.

Not without.

She just wants to live, for you, and puts all her conditions on you.

That's why you can receive so much new information, wear such beautiful clothes, and have the opportunity to dislike your mother for being unfashionable and your father for being cowardly.

So I say that parents have a deep misunderstanding of their children, and children also have a deep misunderstanding of their parents. "

. . . . . .

On the barrage.

"I've been through it all. I just think my classmates' dads are so impressive, and my dad is so useless."

“We were all fearless teenagers before, but later we all became timid family-oriented men (tears).”

"My mom always wears old clothes, sometimes she even wears my old clothes. When my classmates and I see her after school, I feel so embarrassed and I get angry with her when I get home."

"My parents' shoulders are our lookouts for the world. They lifted me up above their heads to see the world. But after seeing the world, I showed them disgust..."

"Damn it, I'm not going to watch this anymore. I can't stand it."

"I'm so tired from work, I just want to relax, why are you telling me this?"

"Fuck! A young man made me cry like a grown man. I'm leaving now."

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[Military Advisor’s Comments: Someone asked me what fatherly love is?
I think it's probably like this: if there is a dish you like on the table, your mother will keep picking that dish for you, but your father will not touch it.

My father passed away on May 19, 5. I always felt that he was unlucky as he left at an age when he should have been enjoying his life.

It wasn't until these two years that I realized that I was unlucky.

Because what I lost was not only my father, but also the man who loved me the most in the whole world, no one else...】(End of this chapter)