I am an emotional anchor, one sentence can break the defense of the whole network

Raymond Lam: "Stop arguing, buddy, just tell me your problem."

Boy: "I don't have any special questions, I just like you so much that I want to come up and talk to you."

Lin Feng waved his hand: "That's enough, the words have been spoken, dad has been called, and the wish has been fulfilled, so I will kick you out now."

Don't, don't, don't.

The boy hurriedly said: "I have been waiting in line for a long time and finally got connected. Then I will ask a question, brother, do you think love will disappear?"

Lin Feng laughed: "You just said there was no problem, but you're so harsh when I ask you."

The boy said with a smile: "Because I have never been in a relationship, but I see that all the guys around me have failed in their relationships, so I am a little afraid of falling in love now."

Lin Feng took a puff of his cigarette and said, “Come on, buddy, listen to me.

Love never disappears.

It just gets calmer.

What can disappear and change is actually just liking.

It may be a strong liking, very close to love, but it is not love.

Liking and loving are two different things.

Let me give you an example.

I really liked this iPhone 15 when I bought it.

I think this is my favorite phone.

But when 16 comes out next month, I will think 16 is my favorite again.

Do you understand?

I really like this thing, but no matter how much I like it, I can't help but buy it as long as a new one comes out.

Because I always have new needs.

If you like it, you can change it.

I like you very much today, and I like him very much tomorrow.

Liking someone is just like those impulses we had when we were young. It’s just a strong liking and a feeling of liking for someone. It’s not absolute.

But love,
It means that as time goes by, it will not be changed casually.

Even if we are separated, no matter what happens to us, I still think you are the best. This is love.

Just like many feelings of the older generation,

For example, my grandparents.

At this age, they no longer say "I love you" or "I did this for you".
I will never express what love is like when I was young. How much do I love you?
Will not.

Grandpa couldn't speak at that time, how could he say "I love you"?
But he still remembers what my grandma likes to eat for breakfast and what flowers she likes.

Every time the time comes, maybe three or four days, the flower will become old and my grandfather will have to replace it.

Including buying breakfast.

When I was young, my grandfather would always say, "I've bought breakfast for you, so get up early and eat it," and he would also urge my grandmother.

But not when you get older.

Although my grandfather would still buy breakfast for my grandmother and put it on the table every day, he would not urge my grandmother to get up and eat quickly.

My grandma wouldn't say thank you for buying us breakfast either.

I won’t express love so strongly.

After my grandma got up, she ate her breakfast in silence.

This is just an ordinary morning for them, but are they really no longer in love?
no.

Love just becomes calmer as time goes by.

It just passed by very calmly.

It has been integrated into the details of life.

If my grandma is not here today, or if my grandpa has something to do today, my grandma will call my dad in the middle of the night and ask, "Is your grandpa back?"
My grandma is in the hospital today. My grandpa asked me not to lie to him. What is the situation of grandma? Is there any problem? He said he would go to check it out.

I called my dad at two o'clock in the morning to ask to go see grandma.

So you're saying love is gone?"

. . . . . .

On the barrage.

"I envy my grandparents' love."

"On my 80th birthday, my grandpa kissed my grandma and asked me to take a commemorative photo. They loved each other so much. They knew each other since they were young and had experienced war, poverty, life and death. My grandpa has been gone for more than ten years. My grandma still says goodnight to my grandpa's photo every day before going to bed. It's really loving."

"I cried after hearing this." "I envy loving families who can also nurture their younger generations (thumbs up)."

"So love will not disappear, it will only become calm and integrated into every detail of life. What the eldest brother said is very good."

. . . . . . .

Raymond Lam: “Why do some people doubt love? It’s because you have never experienced it.

When you meet it, you will know that it exists in the world.

Why do many people say that they get hurt for love? Because that’s because you are stupid. The other person doesn’t love you at all, you just love him.

It’s just like those sisters-in-law who came up to connect to the microphone. They knew that the man cheated on them before marriage and beat them, but they still wanted to marry him.

In the end, he was covered in wounds and said that there is no love in this world.

It's not nonsense.

That is not love, it is confusion and water in the brain.

If you haven't met love, don't criticize its existence.

Because someone in this world has met him.

My grandparents are like this.
My parents are.

Because I have seen it, I will always believe that love exists."

. . . . . .

On the barrage.

"Why do some people doubt love? It's because you haven't experienced it before... Damn, my defense is broken (burst into tears)."

"Love is like a ghost. I've only heard of it but never seen it. For 35 years, I've only been weighing the pros and cons (tears)."

"I once heard someone say that true love is a very high level of latitude, when the energy fields of two people match each other, it is equivalent to finding another self, so it is very difficult and can only be found by chance."

"I want to cry. I will never meet you in this lifetime~"

"I can't find it either. My husband won't let me (crying)."

what?
You fuck,
Hahahahaha.

. . . . . . .

Boy: "Brother, I have listened to your words. Do you have any suggestions on how I can have better luck and meet my true love?"

Lin Feng rolled his eyes and said, "I'm the fucking matchmaker, why are you coming to me to make a wish?
I'm single myself, how can I help you find true love?
I am really impressed.

I can't help you.

Because love is never found, the premise of falling in love is that you cannot fall in love intentionally.

One last piece of advice:
When you meet a boy or a girl who treats you well unconditionally,
cherish!

Because he really may be the ceiling of your life.

Don't do it.

Don't be a bitch.

Like some girls, she may not be very beautiful, but she can accompany you through the most difficult days in the world.

The fact that you can meet her is already the ceiling.

miss,

It means you don’t have the ability to love and be loved.”

. . . . . . .

On the barrage.

"When someone treats you well unconditionally, he may have become the ceiling of your life..."

"I've lost my ceiling, woooooooooooo (crying to death)."

"Me too (sigh)!"

"It would have been nice to have heard that sooner."

"It's useless. You will never understand unless you reach a certain age and really lose something once."

"Really, I realized it too late, and now the retribution has come (tears)."

. . . . . . .

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[Military Advisor’s Remarks: When you are young, you think you can connect with many people, but later you find that such things only happen once or twice in your life.] (End of this chapter)