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Chapter 305 Everyone likes polite people, but they don’t respect polite people

Woman: "Brother, you still suggest that we go back and live there, right?"

Lin Feng nodded: "Yes, I don't have to cook for myself anyway, so I can enjoy a meal as long as I can.

Just keep a calm mind and solve problems when they arise.

Don't run away, slowly become stronger and get back to your own state.

Unless you don’t want to continue like this anymore, you really want to make a clean break.”

The woman suddenly fell silent.

Lin Feng frowned and said in a deep voice: "Sister-in-law, severe Yuyu is not sociable. Your daughter will be excluded and isolated by other classmates at school. Maybe she is being bullied now.

I say it again, she is Yuyu not because of how dirty her grandfather cursed people.

You didn't teach her problem-solving skills.

It is said that a mother is strong!

I've been weak all my life, can you please stand up for your daughter for once? "

Being bullied?
The woman suddenly remembered those campus videos from the 1980s that she had watched during the day.

My daughter...

The woman's heart was suddenly struck hard, but slowly her eyes became firmer.

She said heavily: "I understand, thank you, brother."

Lin Feng then smiled and nodded: "Okay, go ahead, my daughter may have just finished her homework and gone to bed at this time.
Go and kiss my forehead,

Hug her.
By the way, I want to tell my daughter: Mom is very powerful now, and no one, whether it is grandpa or anyone else, can hurt you in the future. "

"h hao～"

It was a very brief word, but almost everyone could hear the trembling and crying tone.

But this time it's not cowardice,
It's awakening.

. . . . . .

On the barrage.

"Mom is very strong now.. Damn, I burst into tears for no reason!!"

"What the hell? They're all talking about trivial things, why am I so moved? What the hell (crying)."

"A mother must be strong! I will fight anyone who dares to let my daughter suffer injustice, woooo, woooo."

"Since I listened to Big Brother's live broadcast, I have become less tearful, but I have less internal friction, and my heart has become stronger (Rose)."

"I'm 18 and I'm a man, but I love to listen to my sister-in-law's gossip. Am I abnormal? (crying)"

"I'm a 14-year-old girl in the second grade of junior high school, and I also like to watch (covering my face)."

Hahahahaha.

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The woman left.

Lin Feng took a puff of cigarette, leaned back in his chair and said, "Isn't it like this now?
Who doesn’t have an ignorant old man in their family?
It's easy to say, just escape, move out, or stay away.

We say out of sight, out of mind.

But in fact, how many people can really achieve the state of not seeing and not being bothered?
Most people have moved away, but the internal friction is still going on.

Have no idea,

You didn't say you were getting a divorce. You really don't want to live with him anymore. So as for the two families, you don't have to worry about it. It won't bother you.

As long as you are a family, if something really happens, they will still call you. Can you just stay away from them?
Just like this sister-in-law,
She is far away now and has moved out with her daughter.

Do you think she's okay?
Are you no longer upset?
If she wasn't annoying, she wouldn't have gotten up in the middle of the night to join the microphone.

So use your brains and think carefully about where the problem lies?

Don't avoid problems, but learn to teach your children to solve them.

Some also say that personality is difficult to change.

How difficult is it?

That's because you haven't felt any pain.

remember,

People are never woken up by anyone, they wake up by themselves because of the pain.

That life was good, and he would definitely not change.

Even if he has a little money, he won't change.

Life is comfortable, and he won't change.

A person will not change unless he is pushed to a certain point.

When will it change?
The wife and children must have been separated.
Go home and your parents will disown you.
Your boss fired you.

Wherever you go, people despise you.
At this time, you will definitely change.

Therefore, there is only one prerequisite for change, which is being forced to do so.

Both mother and daughter are beautiful.

One severe, one moderate.

Still not changing?

Waiting to die.

I have always emphasized that many times people’s sense of morality is too strong, which makes their lives very burdensome.

If you have a lower sense of morality, life is actually quite easy.

If you were as thick-skinned as I am now, I wouldn’t suffer any loss wherever I go.”

. . . . . .

On the barrage.

"If you are as thick-skinned as me, you won't suffer any loss (dog head)."

"I've seen people scolding netizens, but this is the first time I've seen a host scolding himself. It's so funny, hahahaha."

"Hey buddy, you're new here. My big brother goes crazy everyday (sunglasses)."

Hahahaha.

"Indeed, it is difficult to change one's personality, that's because one has never been hurt (thumb)."

"People are never awakened by anyone, they are always awakened by pain. This is so true (awesome)."

"Brother, what you said is so right. I was forced to do this. My relatives and friends looked down on me. My brother also looked down on me. I left my hometown in Northeast China in a fit of anger and left to work. I haven't been home for five years. Now I have 100 million yuan in savings."

Awesome bro!

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Raymond Lam: “But sometimes you don’t have to be too extreme, just like someone in the barrage said that if the sister-in-law went back to fight back and was beaten by her father-in-law, what should she do?
Actually, I have already taught her the method.

The weak are the ones who use the Tao, and the opposite are the ones who move the Tao.

Use methods that suit the person you are.

Make good use of your personality.

Be sure to defeat your opponent in your area of ​​strength.

What does it mean?

I have a strong personality, so I just fight hard.

Do you like swearing?
Then I curse even more foully than you.

Do you like smashing things?

Go ahead and smash it. I'll help you pass things. I'll pass you whatever is expensive. Do you like to hit people?
I may not be able to beat you, but I can scratch you on the face and make you laugh for a week.

This is my personality. I will just fight hard and see who gives in first.

If I have a weak character, I will cry if you scold me.

Open the door and sit on the floor crying.

As long as you are not afraid of being embarrassed, he will be the one who is embarrassed.

Cry twice more and you can still do it.

The use of Tao is for the weak, and the movement of Tao is for the opposite. It's all here.

We say that a saint handles things with humility, is like water, and is one with the world.

How can we achieve being one with the world?

That is,

Be harmonious with its light, be one with its dust, blunt its sharpness, and resolve its conflicts!
No kidding, brothers, this is the truth summarized by a saint two thousand years ago, and it is still applicable today. "

. . . . . . .

On the barrage.

"When a sage deals with things, he is humble and modest, and is as kind as water, blending in with the world (Niu Pi)."

"Harmonize with its light, be one with its dust, blunt its sharpness, resolve its disputes... Big brother is really knowledgeable."

"I feel confused. I seem to understand, but I also seem not to understand (confused)."

"That's not the way to explain He Guang Tong Chen (grin)."

"I remember it was sunlight shining into the house through the window. We could see that the sunlight was full of dust. The fusion of sunlight and dust was called light and dust."

"Haha, great translation. So, this is an adjective? (dog head)."

"My elder brother said that if you know the truth but don't know how to use it, then you don't know it and it's just false knowledge. Only when you have your own understanding and put it into action can you achieve unity of knowledge and action (dog head)."

hiss~
"Been taught a lesson!"

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Raymond Lam: "For example, I
Some of my relatives have very low IQ and EQ.
Many people would avoid it when they see it in the village.

But I'm not afraid. If you provoke me, I will definitely fight back.

With my eloquence, he definitely can't beat me.

So when I went to their house, he was still quite polite to me.

What does this mean?
People still serve different dishes to different people.

If you really come into contact with people, you will know that no one is a fool.

What? That's just his personality. He just treats people differently based on their situation.

Isn't he a straightforward person? Doesn't he speak rudely? When I speak even rudely,
Do you think he will dare to speak nonsense again when he sees me next time?
Aren't you drunk and mad? Don't you like to curse people when you're drunk?

If I were his leader, would he dare to get drunk and throw a tantrum at me? Would he dare to scold the leader?
Anyone who has drunk alcohol knows that it is just a way of using alcohol to make things difficult for those who are less capable than him.

Remember, brothers.

In this society, everyone likes polite people, but they don’t respect polite people.

Because it is human nature to serve people the right dishes.”

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On the barrage.

"Everyone likes polite people, but they don't respect polite people... I'm really impressed!"

"It's human nature to judge people by their appearance. What nonsense are you talking about, big brother (grin)?"

"It's so true. I just arrived at a new company, and I was bullied by a colleague. He was gentle when talking to others, but commanding when talking to me. He didn't even call me by my name. I put up with it for two months. My boyfriend asked me to fight back, and I did. Sure enough, he became obedient afterwards (smile)."

"It's exactly the same. I feel the same way (lowering my head)."

"Don't be afraid. If you are bullied too much, you will rebound. Just like me, I am now the bully in the workplace (dog head)."

"My neighborhood shrew (sunglasses)."

"My dormitory gangster (raised eyebrows)."

"I'm in the third grade of Deep Well Ice (laughing and crying)."

"I'm a newbie here, so I'd like to ask, are there any good people in this room? (Shivering)"

puff~
Hahahahaha.

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Lin Feng glanced at the comments and said, “Good people are not necessarily good, and bad people are not necessarily bad.

I said,
People are three-dimensional.

I can have many sides.

When facing bad guys, I am worse than them.

I treat good people sincerely.

Contradiction?
There is no contradiction!

So don’t worry about good people or bad people, you have to see the essence through the phenomenon.

If you insist on making yourself have a very high sense of morality and constantly consume yourself, you will run into problems.

There are a lot of bad people in society who are responsible for other people's misfortunes, and it's not just a matter of relatives.

So it’s OK if nothing matters.

Some people say what should we do if our father-in-law beats our children when we get home?
This is a matter of principle and bottom line.

No matter how weak your temper is, you can't just cry. I will definitely fight with you.

You said you can't beat him, but you have nails, right?

Whether I can beat you or not, I will at least give you a few tickles.

You said I scratched you, how serious is this thing?

Not so much.

It may not even be a minor injury.

But if you scratch him on the face and leave him injured, he will stay here for at least a week.

In the village, to be honest, the old ladies love to gossip the most.
Everyone was teasing him behind his back. After drinking, he went to his daughter-in-law's room to harass her. What a pervert he is. In the end, he was scratched on the face by his daughter-in-law. He deserved it!
I tell you, he won’t be able to hold his head up in the village anymore.

Let’s see if he dares to do it again.”

. . . . . . .

On the barrage.

"If you can't beat him, just scratch his face and leave him injured. Let the villagers crickets on him behind his back. Hahahahahahahahaha"

"You old pervert, you need to jump into the Yellow River to wash off the dirty water you've spilled, hahahaha."

"Shrimp and pork heart, it has to be my brother (laughing to death)."

"This kid is so experienced in society, he knows more than me, a real country boy (thumbs-up)."

"Big brother is really well-rounded, whether in love or life (he is awesome)."

"I would like to call you the friend of women (dog head)."

"Military Advisor: Get lost!!"

Hahahahaha.

(End of this chapter)