I am an emotional anchor, one sentence can break the defense of the whole network

Chapter 201 My first love amazed my whole life

Okay buddy.

Go down.

I'm going to curse at you later.

Kick the boy off the mic,

Raymond Lam said to the live studio:
"Even if the girl agrees in her heart, if you ask her openly, she will definitely refuse.

I tell you, if you use this thing to test human nature, you will eventually be tested back by human nature.

and,

The girl’s last sentence has already given you the answer.

Say you can still get along.

This is the attitude of the girl.

What attitude?

Even though I don’t have the ability to change my parents, I still want to be with you forever.

The girl has said so much,

You are so good.

You fucking said you were totally dead.

what do you mean?
Do they have to break off relations with their parents just for you?

Why is your face so big?

You are so awesome, why don’t you go and make trouble with your parents?

Although the girl cannot rebel against her parents, she has an attitude.

What about you?

What do you have?
Not only do they not dare to resist their parents, they also have no attitude.

To put it bluntly, you are selfish.

Bros,
How many people have been in a relationship since campus love, and have been in love for five, six, or even eight or nine years?
They once loved each other so passionately, but in the end, because of a bride price, the eight-year relationship ended in a mess.

After it ended, the other person instantly entered into a new relationship and got married.

Isn't it ironic?
Funny isn't it?
There are too many such examples in reality.

why?
Because when we discuss these issues, all kinds of irrelevant people will stir things up.
Some people say: If you are so unhappy about giving the bride price now, he doesn’t love you at all, so break up.

Even the person involved felt that it was good for him to say this to me.

Actually.

You have to remember that there is a world of difference between "for my own good" and "what is right or wrong".

The most superficial reason is that the bride price is not enough.

essentially.

What the man cares more about is whether you stand on my side in the process of dealing with this conflict.

What girls care about is whether you are willing to help me get this done voluntarily.

What my parents care about is whether the other party is taking advantage of our family.

Therefore, when it comes to discussing the bride price, the fewer people involved, the better.

If you two can agree on it yourselves, then just decide it yourselves.

And there is nothing wrong with acting first and reporting later.

Take these two people, one works for a state-owned enterprise and the other for a central enterprise. Aren’t they incapable of making money?

What's wrong with you getting married a few years later?
What's wrong with saving more money?
Can't it?
Do you have to argue with your parents?

Do the two families have to decide who wins and who loses in this matter?"

. . . . .

On the barrage.

Xiao Wan: "Yeah, the girl's subtext is don't worry, let's try harder, but the guy just gave up."

Yaoyao: "To put it bluntly, the boy is competing with the girl's parents and wants the girl to break up with her parents. Although they have been together for six years, they have been in love for more than 20 years. This is not a choice."

Xiao Yue: "I am the one who cannot afford the bride price. I come from a single-parent family. I dropped out of high school and went out to work because I had no money. I met her and have been dating her for four years. The bride price is very high where we are. I work hard but I can never save enough for the bride price. On her birthday, I took her to Chongqing where she always wanted to go. When we left, she hugged me and said she would marry me in the next life, but there is no next life (crying to death)."

what?
July: “As a woman, I feel this is too much (angry).”

Gouzi: "Why are you so entangled? Those who want a dowry can find someone who can afford it, and those who can't afford it can find someone who doesn't want it, isn't that the end of it?"

Clicked.

. . . . .

Lin Feng: "This is such a heavy topic, can we have a student? Can we have a young person?"

Next person.

Ding~
"Hello, military advisor."

It's a girl.

Raymond Lam: "How old are you, sister?"

"18!"

Lin Feng breathed a sigh of relief: "Finally a student has come. Sister, what grade are you in?"

“I just graduated from high school.”

Lin Feng: "Did you get into university?"

"Admitted."

Lin Feng: “Where?”

"Nanjing."

Lin Feng: "This is a great city. Come on, sister, tell me about your situation."

Girl: "We went to the same junior high school and started dating in the second year of junior high. We had a deep relationship at that time.
But in high school, we were not a high school.
In three years, we could only see each other a few times per semester.

We would often quarrel, and the reason for the quarrel was usually that I was unhappy, I was angry with him, and I wanted him to comfort me.

But he was willing at first, but later he thought I was too naive.

The pressure was particularly high in the third year of high school, and then we quarreled even more fiercely,

I thought at the time that once I got through this period and the college entrance examination was over, everything would be fine.
But after the college entrance examination, he told me that he had wanted to break up with me for a long time, and said that we should not contact each other anymore. "

Raymond Lam: "So you are breaking up now?"

"correct."

Raymond Lam: "Sister, we say that childhood affection is called childhood sweethearts.

The student days are called the beginning of love.

The youth is called mutual affection.
In middle age, it is called "holding the case together with the eyebrows".
The twilight years are called growing old together.

The feeling you have between the ages of 14 and 18 is actually a burst of hormones.

You two are together, you can't just think of it as love.
Because at this time, your views on love and world outlook, outlook on life, have not been established.

So your kind of love in childhood is more like a kind of possessiveness.

In fact, he doesn't have a clear understanding of feelings.

It's purely the joy of first love.

My sister,
Now that we've broken up, don't think about it anymore.

Next you have four years of college life.

You can think of her as your youth, and at the same time you are also her youth.

It is a scene of your life between the ages of 14 and 18.

Do not be sad.

Because it is difficult for someone to go from first love to marriage, it is really slim, and everyone goes their separate ways at some point in the road.

And now, we are at the crossroads where we go our separate ways.

why?
Because 18 is a watershed age for looking at the world.

At this time, the child's yearning for the outside world and longing for college life are greater than your feelings.

He is an idea of ​​exploring the world, the more you want to tie yourself to each other, the harder it is to be together.

Because everyone is looking forward to a new life.

So why not just treat it as a memory of your youth, and then get yourself ready for college life.

Where did he get into? Could it be Nanjing too?

Girl: “No.”

Lin Feng: "That's fine. Then, sister, take advantage of the holiday and go on a trip with your best friends.
Then, I will learn how to put on makeup and go to the barber shop to change my hairstyle tomorrow, saying goodbye to my youth.

Classify your old classmates and your tedious homework as the end of your youth.

A new sister was born."

Girl: "I don't want to do this anymore, but I can't control myself, wuwuwu."

Lin Feng waved his hand.

Yu Huanshui immediately pushed the blackboard in front of him.

Lin Feng stood up, knocked on the blackboard and wrote:
"What is the first love?

It was the first joy of our youth,
It is the first throbbing deep in our hearts.

He suddenly broke into my ignorant 18 years old.
Sometimes, the physical exercises and flag-raising ceremonies are what many people look forward to the most.
Big crowd,

I can always find and focus my gaze on someone.

Turn a long and boring ceremony into an exclusive memory that cannot be told to outsiders.

She doesn't have to do anything, yet she's so special.
Just standing in the crowd seems so different.

When I was just beginning to fall in love, I met the person I thought I could be with forever.

It carries my initial imagination of love, which is sincere and beautiful.

I have struggled many times.
I said a lot of things I didn't like about her.

But in the end, I just feel that I am not worthy of him.

You ask me what attracts me to her? She is the one who makes me obsessed with her.

I would say, because he was the person I truly liked when I first fell in love, he was the bravest and most unsuccessful chapter of my youth.

Or maybe it wasn't that she was attractive, or that I had to be with her, but that she broke into my world when I was the most ignorant and my emotions were the purest and cleanest."

. . . .

On the barrage.

"The First Joy of Youth" "The First Throbbing Deep in My Heart"

my God!

I want to cry.

"My first love was the most amazing thing in my life. The destructive power of Bai Yueguang was too great and I couldn't recover."

"She was so good at studying and had a fair complexion. No matter whether her ponytail was high or low, she gave me a special feeling. Every time I looked into her eyes, I would look away first because I was average in appearance and study. My first love was both happy and painful."

"Can you believe it? It's been 20 years and I still can't forget it (sigh)."

"I believe it, because it's been 20 years since I last saw it, and I still dream about it from time to time."

"It's been 18 years, and the love letter is still on the bedside table. We're only two blocks apart, and I'd occasionally bump into him on the street. He'd only glance at me out of the corner of his eye, not daring to look at me because there's someone else next to him."

"Fuck, the memory brain is more terrible than the love brain."

"I am the only one who is in love. Do you like my sister (not my biological sister)?"

You boy.

Hahahahaha.

. . . . .

Raymond Lam: "See, sister, everyone has regrets.

It's normal,
Looking back on our teenage relationships, it was always like this. When we loved passionately, we found that there was no good outcome in the end.
We've all been there.

So I don't think there's anything to repair about your relationship.
He is a part of your life.
Now I want to talk to you about your future college life.

School will start in September.

And I went to Nanjing,
younger sister,

Do you know why I just said Nanjing is a great place?
Because this city has a very rich historical heritage.

Moreover, this city has a variety of snack streets and a variety of scenery.

For example, Xuanwu Lake, Xinjiekou, and that temple?"

Yu Huanshui: "Cherry blossoms at Jiming Temple."

Lin Feng: "Yes, Jiming Temple! And the original sentence in this city, because you like sycamore trees, I planted sycamore trees all over the city for you.

younger sister,

Nanjing is such a romantic city.

Do you know what is the most important thing?

Let me tell you, there are a lot of handsome guys from Jiangsu, Zhejiang and Shanghai in the schools in Nanjing.

Because there are too many universities in Nanjing.

Such as Normal University, Communication University, Art Institute, Hohai University, etc.

It has a lot of universities and young people.

All of them are handsome guys.

Really sister, believe me.

Because I have been to Nanjing, I know what this city is like. Get ready to embrace a new life."

Girl: "Wow, I still feel bad."

Raymond Lam: "Sister, your eyes are swollen from crying every day. You didn't dress up or exercise during this summer vacation.

I tell you,

The first thing to do when university starts is military training.

Is military training really military training?

No.

It was a speed dating session between college boys and girls.

You don't exercise, eat well, work out, or change your hairstyle. You look so messy.
Let me tell you,

At that time you will not have the right to choose a partner of the opposite sex.

Can you imagine a beautiful life in the future?
Various clubs at the university,
I added a guy on WeChat in the club. What department are you from? I am from the School of Media.

And you,

I'm from the advertising department.

There are also seniors to help you carry your luggage.

Including the snack street opposite the school. You and your roommates go out to the snack street and see a handsome guy on the road. Hey, who is that? Which department is he from? He is so handsome.

There are many theaters in the school, and there are often various performances.
There is also a cinema near the school.

Then on weekdays, there are various hot pots on Saturdays and weekends.

I tell you, Haidilao is full of college students, it's crowded.
At that time, you will think, high school is bullshit, all those high school students are ugly,
When you get to college, you'll find all kinds of handsome guys there.

New life is here.

Especially military training.

During military training, you will find it very interesting.

Boys and girls will start social activities in the evening.
At this time, each class sent out handsome guys from their own classes to play guitar, dance, or express their feelings.

At this time everyone started to make a fuss.

Can you fantasize about college life more, sister?"

. . . . .

On the barrage.

"The fraternity party after military training is what I miss most about college (crying)."

"At that time, I sat on the plastic track, with my hands on the ground, looking up at the sky, feeling the evening breeze blowing through thousands of people and finally blowing my hair, and then listening to the song as my youth quietly passed by at that moment."

"When they are socializing, we are just playing duck to duck, duck to duck, splitting our buttocks (smile)."

puff~
Hahahahaha.

(End of this chapter)