Siheyuan: Pretend to be a Pig and Eat the Tiger

Although it was Qin Huairu who came up with the idea, it was Qin Jingru who actually implemented it;
Qin Huairu came up with this idea for her own family, but Qin Jingru dared to carry it out?
She didn't think about it, what if Xu Damao didn't admit it? His reputation was ruined, what would happen if he didn't admit it?

It must be that Xu Damao is crazy about having a child, otherwise, there is no need to go to the hospital for a check-up. He refuses to admit it, and Qin Jingru is dumbfounded. Does he really think whatever you say is the truth?

Qin Huairu did everything she could to deal with Jia Dongxu's sacrifice to heaven and the heavy burden of life, but Qin Jingru didn't do that. She just wanted to stay in the city!

Why did Qin Jingru suddenly want a divorce after she knew Sha Zhu had a son? Wasn't it because she thought she was popular? Did she think she could easily find a man to marry?

Women all think so, and always feel that they are the most popular. If Xu Damao is gone, there are still Wang Damao, Li Dasha and the like. Why are they so arrogant?
Because she had no worries, she had a career-based job, so making a living was not a problem, and it was Xu Damao who couldn't have children, but she could;

Some people may ask why she didn't divorce before? Because she couldn't figure out whether she was the one who couldn't have children. Besides, it was already known that Xu Damao's wife couldn't have children.
Once divorced, what will happen if no one wants to marry her? In this era, marrying a wife is mainly about carrying on the family line. What's the point of marrying a woman who can't have children?

All these concerns disappeared when Lou Xiao'e returned with her son, and that's when Qin Jingru packed up her things and moved to the company to live.

As for forgiving Xu Damao in the end, that is even more nonsense. After moving out, if Qin Jingru finds someone she can entrust her life to, will she come back?

Now that they are back again, the best proof is that no one is interested in second-hand goods in their thirties. A large number of educated young people have returned to the cities, and after the reform and opening up, older farmers have moved to the cities to find a way to make a living, so it is not difficult to find a wife, especially in Beijing!
After comprehensive analysis, He Yuzhu believes that Qin Jingru is far inferior to Qin Huairu, at least based on his current real feelings;

The reason why Qin Huairu became the way she is in the play is probably because of the burden of life, the inability to improve her skills, Jia Zhangshi's laziness, the ration for one person, and the three children waiting for food and drink;

Think about it, what can a woman do in this era of scarcity of supplies and lack of clothes? Watching her children starve to death?
Women are weak by nature, but strong as mothers. If He Yuzhu was in his twenties, he might have disdained Qin Huairu's trading flour buns for meat buns.

However, men in their thirties don’t think so. Men in their thirties and forties have the hardest time.
This kind of pressure is already great enough, but there is still no pressure to survive. No matter how difficult the days are, there is no problem for the whole family to have enough food;
Can it be the same in this era? Without food, if the problem of eating is not solved, starvation is possible. Can she just watch her child starve to death?

As for the plan against the original body, He Yuzhu seems to be a willing fighter. How do you know that the original body is not enjoying it?

Qin Huairu saw that He Yuzhu disagreed and fell into deep thought, so she stopped disturbing him. It would be fine if He Yuzhu agreed, but if he disagreed, it would not work even if Lao Ma agreed. She could still see this clearly.

A cold wind blew, and He Yuzhu came back to his senses. He found that Qin Huairu had gone back, and he smiled bitterly.
No matter how Qin Huairu looked at it, he felt that Qin Jingru was not suitable. Ma Hua was the most loyal assistant in the kitchen of the future hotel, and his wife had to be reliable.

After the reform and opening up, as competition becomes increasingly fierce, it is hard to guarantee that someone will not try to find a solution from the back kitchen;

Therefore, people like Qin Jingru are not suitable for MCA, as they are very easy to be attacked!
In fact, he thought too much. Qin Huairu had already regarded He Yuzhu as the sky and her daughter as the earth.
In her heart, He Yuzhu and Qin Liling were everything to her. Since Tian did not agree, she could not introduce Ma Hua even if her uncle complained.

Qin Huairu has lived her whole life not for herself, not for her parents, but only for her man and daughter. This is her reverse scale, but also her bottom line.
Qin Jingru's admission to the hospital soon caused a stir, especially among unmarried men. Although Qin Jingru looked rustic, she was pretty and had a nice figure, so they naturally wanted to approach her and chat with her, but they didn't dare to.

What can you do at this time? Of course, you should ask your parents for help, which is also the most common operation;
If you can't do it yourself, your parents will do it, and if you think you can do it, then the matchmaker will do it, and it will basically work;

"Mom, do you know who the girl in the middle courtyard is related to? Why haven't I seen her before?"

Liu Guangtian hesitated for a while, and finally mustered up the courage to get some answers from his mother. This was the rhythm of wanting to marry a wife;

The child is not young anymore, hormones are starting to be secreted, it’s time to find someone to warm the bed. If his parents don’t care, shouldn’t he pay attention too?

"Well, I heard from Third Aunt that she seems to be Qin Huairu's cousin, but I'm not sure about the details. Why are you asking this?"

Liu Qianshi hadn't realized her son was in love yet, and looked at Guangtian curiously. After the eldest son left, she stopped paying attention to her son.
Now, in her heart, Liu Haizhong is everything. As long as Lao Liu is fine, she will be safe. Her son cannot be relied on, and cannot be trusted;

Old Liu is the guarantee for retirement, and his sons are all ungrateful people. This is the consensus of the old couple. Of course, they don’t ignore it, but the price cannot be too high!

"Mom, I was thinking about getting married and giving you a grandson. Now that my eldest brother is gone, doesn't it fall to me to complete this mission?
I want to see which girl is capable of bearing children. The key is that she is from the countryside, so she doesn’t have so many requirements and the betrothal gift is not high, that’s why I’m asking!”

Liu Guangtian felt quite embarrassed, but Qin Jingru's delicate body appeared in his mind from time to time, and he imagined a lot of actions in his mind. With the idea of ​​striking first, he mustered up the courage to speak;
Of course, if you want your parents to agree, you have to point out the pros and cons. You can't just say you'll marry this person, right?
I work in a small factory and my income is not high, so I can only rely on my family. If the bride price is enough, I can do it myself. Why should I look for my tyrant father?

"Well, I'll find some time to ask Huairu for her opinion. I don't even know if she has a boyfriend or not. Wait until I find out clearly before you do anything rash!"

Liu Qian was not very enthusiastic. There are many examples of men forgetting their mothers after they get married. The eldest son got married and went to support the third front without consulting his parents. Will it be okay if the second son gets married?

Qin Huairu's opinion is secondary; the old man's opinion is the most important. If Old Liu agrees, she will ask. If he disagrees, forget it!

The old couple had high hopes for Liu Guangqi, and his sudden departure without saying goodbye was a huge blow, causing Liu Qianshi to stop caring about her two sons.

In her mind, her son was the least reliable. Even the eldest son, whom she had the highest regard for, was like this. How could the remaining two be any better? She was skeptical!

At this time, Liu Guangqi didn't know that his mother had so many thoughts. His mind was full of Qin Jingru. Seeing his mother agreed, he nodded happily! (End of this chapter)