After divorce, can I withdraw my Happy Beans?

Chapter 191 Contrast
By ten o'clock, almost everyone had arrived and everyone found a seat and sat down.

Five minutes later, a smiling female host walked onto the stage with a matchmaker in a bright red coat.

"Today's event is a gathering of youth, a beautiful encounter, taking advantage of the breeze to chase the heart-warming encounter..."

The host was dignified, smiling, holding the microphone, speaking eloquently, and saying auspicious opening words.

"Today we gather together not only to find love, but also to have a spiritual exchange and sharing..."

Su Cheng had never been to this kind of offline blind date conference, and he was quite excited at first, but as the host talked to him, he inexplicably felt that it was similar to the annual company team-building event.

When you arrive at your destination, play games to liven up the atmosphere. It is best to pair men and women together to make a lot of jokes that can make everyone laugh.

This creates a relaxing atmosphere.

It’s similar for blind dates. If you are generous and cheerful and want to show yourself quickly, you can go on stage and introduce yourself. You can also show your talents and use your personal charm to attract the opposite sex.

If there is a guest of the opposite sex that you like, you can directly invite the other person to come on stage for a conversation.

Everyone was a little embarrassed at first, but with the host and the matchmaker's shouting, the first person came on stage.

Taking the microphone from the host, the male guest introduced himself shyly: "Hello everyone, my name is Li Jiahao, I am from Meizhou, I am 29 years old this year, 1.71 meters tall, I work as a programmer, and my monthly salary is 15,000 yuan. My hobbies are listening to music and fishing. My criteria for choosing a spouse are sunny and cheerful, kind-hearted, and thrifty..."

After a burst of self-introductions, he sang another song at the host's instigation.

But because he was tone-deaf, all the male and female guests in the audience burst into laughter.

When asked about the female guest he admired, Li Jiahao's gaze paused from Li Baoer for a moment, and finally fell on another person, "I think female guest No. 62 is pretty good, I want to get to know her."

The host continued, "Then please welcome our female guest number 62 to the stage. Please applaud and welcome her!"

With a shy blush on her face, the 62nd female guest came on stage and introduced herself, "Hello everyone, my name is Sun Yining, I am 25 years old, 1.6 meters tall, and I am a kindergarten teacher. My hobbies are food, music and traveling, and I like to go to different places."

Then the two of them played a small game about tacit understanding on the stage, asked a few questions, looked at each other with suspicion, and successfully walked off the stage hand in hand, setting a good example for everyone.

Seeing this scene, Su Cheng seriously suspected that these two people were dragging their feet?

Unfortunately, he had no evidence.

However, with the performance of these two people, everyone's mood became much higher afterwards, and both men and women took the initiative to go on stage.

But Su Cheng was not very interested in these things. Just when he was drowsy, he felt someone patting his shoulder.

"Hey--"

"Brother, wake up, there is a female guest asking you to go up."

Hearing this, Su Ben instinctively looked at the number plate hanging on his wrist, number 33.

I could only hear the host on the stage still shouting, "Please invite our handsome guy No. 33 to come on stage. He is a little shy. Let's give him some applause to encourage him!"

"Clap clap-"

"Clap clap-"

There was a burst of enthusiastic applause, and some people cheered, "Go up! Go up!"

Su Cheng smiled and stood up. He also took the opportunity to look at Li Baoer's position. Their eyes met through the sunglasses. He could clearly see the displeasure on the other's face. It seemed that she was questioning him, "Why did you stand up?"

Su Cheng pretended not to see it, took off his glasses and put them in his pocket, then walked all the way to the stage.

The host handed over the microphone, "You are a handsome young man, please introduce yourself first!"

Su Cheng took the microphone with a smile, "My name is Su Cheng, I'm 27 years old, 1.82 meters tall, and I own an investment company. I was supposed to be discussing business with a client today, but they went to see the giant pandas next door, and I saw that it was quite lively here, so I came in to take a look."

The host was knowledgeable and had met all kinds of people, so he naturally noticed that Su Cheng was extraordinary. Unlike the others who were cautious when they came up, he was more casual and unrestrained.

She knew that the man in front of her was really powerful, so she smiled and said, "Then you have come to the right place. We are very busy here."

Looking at the girl standing next to him, the host smiled and said, "Beautiful lady, your fate has come. The handsome guy just came in to watch the fun and you picked him. The handsome guy opened his own investment company and must have a good income. You must seize the opportunity."

The girl smiled and nodded. "I think I have good taste, too."

The host looked at Su Cheng and said, "The girl has already shown her talent. Do you have any talent to show?"

Su Cheng shook his head, "I don't have any talent."

Are these people worthy of his performing talents?

The host then asked: "Since you have no talent, then tell me about your strengths and hobbies."

Su Cheng smiled and said, "I have advantages and hobbies."

The host continued: "So what are your strengths and hobbies?"

Su Cheng smiled confidently, "My advantage is that I can please my mother-in-law, and my hobby is to love my wife!"

"Hahaha--"

When Su Cheng's words were heard, there was an immediate burst of laughter from the audience.

The host then asked, "Well, handsome guy, how do you please your mother-in-law?"

Su Cheng said: "You have to be diligent, have a keen eye for work, and be able to cook good dishes!"

The host continued to ask: "What about loving your wife?"

Su Cheng smiled and said, "How I love my wife is a matter between me and my wife. With so many people here, it's not convenient for me to talk about it!"

His words were full of profound meaning, and the experienced people all understood them, and they all looked at Su Cheng with winks.

Of course, there were also many women who blushed and spat.

The host did not force it, "Since it is inconvenient to talk about it, then each of you can ask the other three questions to get to know each other better."

The two stood on either side, one meter apart. At this time, Su Cheng could finally see each other's face clearly.

A pretty girl, dressed to the nines, about twenty-five years old, wearing a light blue skirt, with an average figure, and permed yellow curly hair. And judging by her accent, she doesn't sound like a Sichuanese.

The woman held the microphone and said, "Handsome, can I ask you first?"

Su Cheng didn't care, "Sure!"

He was dozing off just now and didn't even hear the other party's self-introduction.

The woman asked, "Excuse me, when you said you love your wife, do you mean doing housework and taking care of the family?"

Su Cheng shook his head, "Cooking is a hobby, but I don't like doing housework."

Feeling a little disappointed, the woman continued to ask, "Do you let your wife do the housework? But others have been living in luxury since childhood, and their parents love them. They have never had to do anything. Do you think it's appropriate for them to come to your house and serve your family?"

Su Cheng continued to shake his head, "I said I love my wife, but I don't do it myself, so I must hire a nanny!"

The woman's inner demerit immediately turned into surprise, and she asked again: "Who has the final say on the family finances after we get married?"

Her vision of people was indeed good. The man in front of her was handsome, had good taste in clothes, and looked like a capable man.

Su Cheng smiled and said, "You want to know who will take care of the money after we get married?"

The woman nodded. "That's about it."

“People are different. Everyone has limited cognitive abilities, limited knowledge, and limited wealth.”

Su Cheng smiled and said, "Once it is beyond your control and cognition, the excess wealth will flow back into the market."

The woman shook her head. “What you said is too profound. I don’t really understand!”

Su Cheng explained: "It's just like what we often say about stock speculation. Have you ever thought about why some people make a lot of money, while others are treated as leeks and harvested continuously?"

This time the woman understood and pursed her lips, "You can deposit the money in the bank!"

Su Cheng smiled and said, "I am the boss of an investment company. Do I deposit my money in a bank?"

Knowing she had lost points, the woman quickly explained, “Banks also have financial management!”

Su Cheng shook his head. "Banks provide financial management, so what's the point of me opening an investment company?"

The woman didn't care whether it was three questions or not, and continued to ask: "How much do you plan to give as a gift for the marriage?"

Su Cheng smiled. "Judging from your accent, you are not a local, right?"

The woman nodded and said, "I'm from Ganjiang."

Su Cheng said: "Locals generally don't ask for a dowry. The amount depends entirely on the intention."

The woman was a little disappointed. "It's not easy for my parents to raise me, and I have a younger brother."

"I'm not done yet."

Su Cheng smiled and said, "Everyone is so emotional, one million is fine, ten million is not impossible."

The woman smiled, "What if the relationship is not good?"

Su Cheng rolled his eyes and said, "If the relationship is not good, then why should I get married?"

The woman's smile froze. "After we get married, can I quit my job and become a full-time wife?"

Su Cheng smiled and nodded, "Sure!"

The woman then asked: "How much do you pay me per month?"

Su Cheng smiled and asked back: "Why should I give you money?"

The woman explained: "I quit my job, so I definitely have no income!"

Su Cheng smiled and shook his head, "It's too early for you and me!"

The woman's face was filled with disappointment. "Then let's add WeChat and chat slowly!"

Su Cheng nodded and did not refuse.

There are so many people here, please give me some face and just add me on WeChat.

Here, when Su Cheng walked down from the stage, countless pairs of eyes were on him.

After all, what he said just now was a bit exaggerated, hiring a nanny and asking for a dowry of millions or tens of millions.

The tone was a bit high, and instantly overshadowed all the male guests. When Su Cheng sat down, the person next to him immediately gave him a thumbs up and said excitedly: "Dude, I knew you were awesome, but I didn't expect you to be this awesome!"

Others also stared at Su Cheng with envy, because he was the big boss.

Su Cheng smiled and took out a cigarette and smoked it. "I was just bragging. I can't handle a woman from Ganjiang who has a brother."

As soon as these words came out, there was a burst of laughter, "Hahaha——"

Su Cheng's voice was neither too loud nor too soft, just enough for some of the female guests who had been paying attention to what was going on here to hear it. They couldn't help but cover their mouths and laugh.

The bride price in Ganjiang is high, and the dowry is only three quilts, which is well-known throughout the country.

How can there be any quiet time?
It’s all thanks to our fellow Ganjiang people who carry the burden for us.

Of course, this was just a minor episode and was soon forgotten.

However, many people noticed that Su Cheng did not ask the woman any questions, and it seemed that he was really not interested.

Su Cheng was spreading a circle of cigarettes over here, while the male and female guests over there continued to go on stage.

Li Baoer, the most beautiful female guest in the audience, sat alone with a blank expression. More than ten male guests came up, but no one called her up.

This is the difference between men and women.

When a man sees an unattainable goddess, he will only feel guilty and think that he is a loser and is not worthy of her.

When a woman sees a tall and handsome man, she will boldly go up and give it a try no matter what the outcome is.

This is related to the attitudes of men and women in choosing a mate. Men are generally downward-compatible, while women only want to climb up.

To put it in simple terms, men know that they are poor, but women don't know that they are ugly.

A man’s poverty does not just mean poverty in terms of money and wealth, it can also be understood as his own ability.

I have a general idea of ​​my abilities and how much salary I can earn.

A woman’s ugliness is not just about her appearance.

Appearance is secondary. The most important thing is that one fails to recognize one's true situation and only knows how to compare oneself with the best friends around one.

They often ignore the process and only look at the results.

Su Cheng has a deep understanding of this point, after all, he has experienced a failed marriage.

It was precisely because of this experience that he truly understood a truth.

Only when the man is on top and the woman is on the bottom can there be happiness between husband and wife.

Only when a man moves forward can he become self-reliant.

Only when a woman sinks down can she be virtuous and bear the world.

Just look at Su Cheng now. In the eyes of ordinary people, he is definitely rich and powerful, so every woman around him is infinitely tolerant of him.

Each one of them is as gentle as jade, virtuous, not competitive, speaks softly and politely, and everything revolves around him. If the weather changes slightly, they will send him a message to ask about his well-being.

In this way, Su Cheng had a happy and cheerful life every day.

They were very satisfied and felt cared for when they got Su Cheng's response.

On the contrary, look at Li Rongrong, she divorced him directly because she thought he earned too little and was incompetent.

If Li Rongrong knew his current situation, let alone kneeling down to beg for reconciliation, he would probably have no problem forcing her to kneel and crawl around in the street.

Not to mention taking Li Rongrong and crawling around the street, there would be no problem taking Qin Yue and crawling around together.

Su Cheng could even imagine the conversation between the two.

Su Cheng: Is one million enough?
Qin Yue: My face is worth one million?

Su Cheng: What about the five million?

Qin Yue: Money can’t buy my personality!

Su Cheng: Is that 10 million enough?
Qin Yue: I don’t love money, I just want to sincerely apologize to you!
Su Cheng: I’m sorry, if you agree, just pretend I didn’t say anything. Is your face worth ten million?

This is the goal that every man should strive for, instead of just trying to please himself and compromise like a dog.

It's a pity that he's not that boring.

What is Qin Yue’s identity?
What is his identity?
He now felt disgusted even to speak a word to Qin Yue.

However, it's time to deal with these two fake best friends.

Beat him up severely!
With the opening of the Internet, times have changed and there are more and more sophisticated egoists.

The money should be in the man's own hands.

For the sake of your family, you should spend and use things as needed.

But what if the money falls into the hands of a woman?
Then at best you are free labor.

If you are lucky, you will be given three or five hundred pocket money, so you can buy a pack of cigarettes and cut off all social activities.

If you are unlucky, even if you are given fifty or one hundred pocket money, you will find it difficult to even drink a bottle of water, let alone smoke.

Men's socializing is different from women's socializing.

Men’s socializing is about entertaining, while women’s socializing is about consumption.

For a man, once he has no social interaction, he is destined to stay in the same place for the rest of his life and will never have any opportunities again.

If you are sociable and lucky enough to meet a noble person who gives you an opportunity, then you have a chance to turn your life around.

And the aging parents at home?
If you want to honor your aging parents, but you don't have a penny, you might even be so cowardly as to ask your parents for a hundred or two hundred yuan.

Don't think that a woman who only gives you three or five hundred yuan in pocket money a month can be a good person. Once the money is in her hands, don't worry about how she spends it; it won't be used on you anyway.

In this world, breaking up is the norm, so how can you and I be the exception?

Wanting her to honor your parents is wishful thinking!

She can’t even do laundry, cooking, or housework, and yet you expect her to respect your parents?

Although it was only a short period of half a year from marriage to divorce, it was enough to bring about earth-shaking changes in Su Cheng, and he could see clearly some truths that he could not see clearly or understand before.

If she is a qualified wife and mother, she will not only give you three to five hundred yuan in pocket money a month, but will be considerate and understanding.

Being thrifty is a virtue, but one should not be too calculating about the cost of social activities and entertainment, rather than setting a strict limit on how much money to spend each month.

Who are you plotting against with your petty mind?
There is no one else except your temperless, loser husband.

What kind of sense of security is this? It's nothing more than being ready for divorce at any time!

Because of Su Cheng's remarks after he stepped down from the stage, no female guest invited him to the stage again, so he had a chance to relax for a while.

At noon, we had a buffet.

The dishes are not very good and relatively simple, but people don’t come here to eat.

All those who catch their eye will take the initiative to approach, chat with them and ask for their contact information.

Although Su Cheng lost some points for a joke he made when he stepped off the stage, his handsome appearance and confident temperament once again won him favor, and many female guests asked him for his contact information.

He never liked to reject others in person, so he agreed to everything with a smile.

He has three WeChat accounts, and all these unimportant people are added on one WeChat account that is not used.

Compared to Su Cheng who was surrounded by a group of female guests asking for their contact information, while everyone was sitting at a table eating a buffet and chatting and laughing, Li Baoer's side was a bit disappointing.

This time she came for a blind date, she was not as popular as she had imagined.

Not to mention that no one invited her to come on stage just now, even now during her free time at noon, no one has taken the initiative to approach her or ask for her WeChat.

What's worse, she sat at a table alone and no one wanted to sit at the same table with her.

Every man has a scale in his heart. He knows exactly which woman is suitable for marriage and which woman is not suitable for marriage!

It's okay to date someone like Li Baoer who is beautiful and dresses brightly, but it's not suitable to marry her.

They come to the blind date conference not to fall in love, but to get married!

Moreover, Li Baoer's aura is too strong. Just a glance in the eyes can give people an inexplicable sense of oppression, making people feel nervous, as if they were summoned to the office of the company leader, making people always unconsciously cautious.

They are here to find a wife, not a leader.

They feel too much pressure facing Li Baoer!

On the contrary, the female guests who were dressed conservatively and casually and had a warm smile were very popular, and many people specifically asked for their WeChat accounts.

From what Su Cheng saw, there was a female guest who was very popular and was actively added on WeChat by seven or eight male guests.

Although this kind of person may not necessarily be a good wife and mother, the first impression she gives is much more reliable than Li Baoer.

In the eyes of these men who are eager to get married, it is a delicious dish and a popular commodity!

It’s a pity that there are so many people adding me on WeChat that the chances of success are slim.

As for the other female guests, no one wanted to play supporting role because Li Baoer had such a good temperament and was too beautiful, and naturally no one wanted to sit at the same table with her.

Men can't afford her, so women simply exclude her.

Thinking of what his mother said, when a man came to chat with her, she would respond with a few words sincerely, which made Su Cheng feel a little urgency.

But now...

Such a huge gap made the expression on Li Baoer's face even uglier and colder.

Think about Officer Li, when has she ever suffered such injustice?
She felt even more uncomfortable when she saw Su Cheng surrounded by a group of beautiful girls, with laughter coming from time to time.

Li Baoer gritted her teeth, took out her cell phone, and without caring about the girl's modesty, she directly dialed Su Cheng's number and said five words lightly, "Su Cheng, come here!"

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(End of this chapter)