Traveling back to the 1980s, the beauties in the courtyard can no longer be offended

But also, there are no examples around people who don’t get married.

Now women have not yet figured out a way not to marry, and there are very few role models in this regard.

Some people can only understand why they got married in the first place after they have been married.

Li Shenglong nodded and said: "If one day I insist on getting married, it must be to have children."

I also thought of Wei Yan.

Nodding again: "It may also be because of love."

"It's great to live with interesting people."

Another point is because of sex.

If she was sure that her sex life with Wei Yanchi was not harmonious, she would not get married either.

Of course you can't tell anyone this.

Otherwise someone should label her.

But this is what she really thinks.

She has lived for so many years, she must have figured out everything she should have figured out.

First of all, she wanted a child in her previous life.

It's hard to say why I like the fact that I have children.

It may be because she has a lot of money, or it may be that she has some regrets. In her previous life, she really wanted to have a child related to her by blood, and then she would come and raise him herself, and see if he can be admitted to Tsinghua University and Peking University. .

Because of herself, she didn't pass the exam.

It's such a simple idea, she really wants to have a child.

So generally speaking, she does not reject marriage.

She herself knew what kind of marriage she wanted.

She felt that Yan Chanjuan had the same thoughts as hers, otherwise Yan Chanjuan couldn't blush.

But Juanjuan still doesn't know what marriage brings to mankind.

At least no one came here to give her a good talk.

Li Shenglong pondered for a while and said, "You're right. When a person reaches a certain age, he just wants to get married. Because of such social attributes, you can't even think about what you want after 40."

"Is it possible that I don't want to get married after I turn 40?" Yan Chanjuan asked, tilting her head, her eyes widening, looking very innocent and cute.

Li Shenglong smiled and said: "It's very possible, let me tell you this, marriage is easy and divorce is difficult."

"Have you saved a lot of money now?"

Yan Chanjuan smiled and said, "You big boss, don't you know how much money I have?"

Li Shenglong said with a warning tone: "Did you know that the other party will divide half of your property during divorce? Of course, you can also divide half of your property, but the prerequisite is that he has it, but I am sure that you have it now."

Yan Chanjuan is very frugal, and Li Shenglong is more generous. Their salary is not high, but the bonus given by Li Shenglong is too high.

Let's put it this way, the richest workers in their city are the female workers of the textile factory. That's right, the sales volume of the textile factory is very good, and the number of female workers in the textile factory can reach more than 300 a month.

Sometimes they don't even want to introduce leading cadres to them, and they dislike the low income.

Because the general salary of leading cadres is only about yuan.

This is not a low position.

Yan Chanjuan's money in the past few months is three times that of a female worker in a textile factory.

Looking at the money herself, she felt like she was in a dream.Of course, Li Shenglong is not a prodigal, he secretly gave it to her, others should not have so many.

It's because she is an old employee and is willing to work hard.

The money is enough for her mother to see a doctor, her younger siblings to go to school, and she can sell a big house, all of which are left over.

If the money was divided in half, she would really vomit to death.

"But we didn't get married just for the sake of divorce." Yan Chanjuan didn't understand why Li Shenglong thought of divorce.

Li Shenglong put down his work and said.

"You are wrong. You must first be a villain and then a gentleman, only then can things be done beautifully."

"If you are a partner, you must first think about what to do after the partner takes the money and runs away, so that you can do better business with him."

"If you think carefully about divorce first, what you lose after divorce, what you can gain, and whether you can bear this loss and gain, you have to think clearly, and then you can marry the person without hesitation, and you can live with him better." .”

“Otherwise, I’ll always be holding back my breath, and I won’t be able to live well.”

Maybe these truths are a bit hollow to say without personal experience, and Yan Chanjuan doesn't seem to understand it all at once.

Her eyes were a little dazed.

But nodded and said: "I understand a little bit, you don't agree with my blind date."

Li Shenglong said: "Analyze yourself, he is the eldest brother, he has younger siblings at home, his mother does not have a job, and his father is very honest. This shows that as an elder brother, he has to bear the responsibility of the whole family before he gets married."

Yan Chanjuan looked serious, and nodded when she thought of something: "Yes, third uncle said that he is filial, honest and righteous, but I am also the elder sister."

Therefore, if you care about other people's contributions, others will also think about her dragging the family.

But Li Shenglong thinks that's where the problem lies.

Sometimes a man feels that it is natural for him to protect his relatives, but if a woman favors her relatives, it is called cheating.

She is not encouraging brothers and sisters to give money directly, but this is how the society is now, the big ones are small, and the small ones will lose big when they grow up, so the elder brother is like a father, and the elder sister-in-law is like a mother, the reason is from this here.

Do as the Romans do, she has no objection to Yan Chanjuan raising her younger siblings.

I don't object to the other party raising a big family.

But these things must be analyzed clearly beforehand.

Li Shenglong said: "Being filial means listening to your parents and being honest and benevolent... If you are only benevolent and righteous, you may really be a good person. If you are honest, this person should be a little timid."

"If you think about it again, it was my aunt who found the job. Maybe it was because of my parents running away. The whole family's relationship was used. My aunt finally gave him a formal job."

"He not only owes his aunt, he also owes the whole family, why don't you pay it back?"

"If he doesn't want to pay it back, is it possible that others won't force him to pay it back?"

"If you married, isn't it all you owe? Because he is honest, and he will definitely make do with it. If you don't want to make do with it, you will be ahead, and if you want to make do with it, you will suffer. You have to choose one."

"We can marry for love, to have children, for economic benefits, and for many things. We can't marry just to be angry, pay off other people's debts, and be someone else's mother, right?"

Yan Chanjuan was enlightened, and then looked at Li Shenglong in surprise, "Shenglong, you have so many ideas, I really didn't expect them."

Li Shenglong thought to himself that if you were poorer, everyone would be poor anyway, and no one would take advantage of anyone. In order to survive, he would swallow his anger.

But now that Yan Chanjuan has some money, she definitely doesn't want to suffer this kind of grievance. This marriage is very difficult to last forever.

Li Shenglong hurriedly said again: "I'm also talking nonsense, you just listen to it and forget about it. Marriage is such a thing, it's hard to say, some people may have all kinds of problems, but if they are good at coaxing people, there are women who like it."

"Who can tell clearly? Maybe it's fate."