Transmigrating into the 1980s to raise younger siblings

Chapter 190 Marriage
188. Get married
When they arrived at the Zhao family, Zhao Chunhua told his family about their plan to get married, and everyone in the Zhao family was naturally overjoyed.

Li Jiahui couldn't believe it and said: "Big girl, do you really agree?"

"Auntie, I'm sorry before. I was too self-willed. I didn't take into account that Grandpa Zhao is old and wants us to get married soon. Now I have figured it out, and brother Chunhua is so good, I should cherish it."

Li Jiahui said happily: "I just said that you are a sensible and good girl, you can understand the painstaking efforts of our elders, just think about it."

Zhao Wenjie also said with a smile: "After going out to play for a few days, I figured it out. This trip is not in vain."

Li Jiahui couldn't hold back her excitement: "I have to find someone to check the date and do some shopping."

Zhao Chunhua: "Mom, don't worry, I haven't finished my words yet!"

Zhao Wenjie: "What? You said?"

"After we get married, we will go out to live. In other words, the wedding room will be arranged in the big girl's house."

Li Jiahui's smile froze.

"What do you mean? You want to join the family and become the son-in-law of the Zhang family? Do you know that the Zhao family has been passed down for several generations, can you ask your grandfather if you agree to do this?"

"Mom, it's just living in the big girl's house, it's not considered a marriage."

"Is our house so big enough to live in? If a son marries a daughter-in-law and lives in the woman's house, what is it if he is not married?"

"Mom, Da Niu's younger siblings are still young, so we can't ignore them, right? We live in Zhang's house for the convenience of taking care of Er Niu and Xiao Bao, and it has nothing to do with being married."

Zhao Wenjie: "I can tell, you are taking care of Erniu and Xiaobao, so you want to live with them, I think this is understandable..."

Li Jiahui interrupted her husband's words violently: "What do you understand? This is absolutely not acceptable. What is it that your son gets married and lives in the woman's house? You are not afraid of others laughing, but I am afraid of others laughing! Isn't it Er Niu and Xiao Xiao?" Is there no one to take care of Bao? It doesn't matter, come to our house, our house can live in."

"Erniu and Xiaobao are not used to living in our house. Besides, grandpa likes to be clean. If there are too many people, it will inevitably be noisy, and grandpa is also uncomfortable. Not only grandpa, but everyone's life will be disturbed. We lived until At Da Niu’s house, everyone is safe and sound.”

Zhang Daniu: "Auntie, it's actually not that complicated. Now that my brother and sister are young, we live in the past to take care of them. At this time, your health is good and you don't need us to take care of you. In the future, Erniu and Xiaobao will grow up and start a family. Now, you are also getting old, and when you need to take care of us, we will live back again, as a family, it is convenient to come here, isn't it?"

"Your grandfather is old now and needs to be taken care of. Are you trying to escape responsibility?"

"If grandpa wants to come with us, we welcome it."

Li Jiahui was shaking with anger.

"What nonsense are you talking about?"

Grandpa Zhao: "I'm in good health. I don't need to take care of me, and I don't have to go anywhere. I don't think it's a problem for Chunhua to live with the big girl after she gets married. Isn't it just for the convenience of taking care of younger siblings! This is what it should be. "

"Dad, this can't be..."

Grandpa Zhao waved his hand: "There's nothing wrong with that! Didn't they already agree that it's not marriage, but just for the convenience of taking care of younger siblings! This is human nature, a matter of course."

"Jiahui, sometimes you are too self-conscious. You are afraid of others gossiping. What are you afraid of? Live your own life. Do you know for yourself? In order to prevent others from gossiping, do you have to embarrass yourself?"

"It's not that I don't understand them. Didn't I let Erniu and Xiaobao come to our house?"

"People feel uncomfortable when they come to our house. They want to live freely in their own home, so please follow them! Follow other people's wishes, which is the greatest kindness. Before, the big girl didn't want to get married, but she couldn't leave her younger siblings. Let's go along with us and agree to get married, so we should also follow her wishes, and when we get along with each other, isn't it just about seeing things from the other's point of view and thinking for the other, so that we can live in peace?"

Zhao Chunxiang, who had been silent all this time, interrupted at this moment.

"Grandpa is right. Mom, you are still a teacher, a cultural person, and your thinking is too conservative! Do you have to live with the man's family when you get married? I don't want to. When I get married, I will Two people live together. In this way, there will be no conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.”

Li Jiahui hit her daughter.

"What nonsense are you talking about? Your thoughts are too selfish. You don't want to be with the old man after you get married, you just don't want to take care of the old man. How can I raise such a heartless child like you?"

"Didn't my sister-in-law just say that? Now you are healthy and don't need to take care of them. They will come back when you need them in the future. I think it's good! When you are young, you have your own living space. When you are old, you can take care of the elderly." How can this be called having no conscience?"

If it was before, Zhang Daniu heard Li Jiahui say that her daughter didn't want to live with the old man because she had no conscience and didn't want to take responsibility, she would definitely come out with verbal swords. Now, she is silent, on the one hand she knows that Li Jiahui is really only targeting Daughter, I didn't mean anything against her. I don't need to be a victim. I always suspect that other people's words and deeds are not good for me. Such a person is always living in pain and messing up all relationships.

The other one, she was protected by Zhao Chunhua, so she couldn't suffer.

Sure enough, Zhao Chunhua said: "Mom, think about it, if you really can't face it, you can wait three years before getting married. After three years, Erniu and Xiaobao will both go to college, and they can usually live on campus. Da Niu and I can also live in our house, and when my younger siblings go home during the holidays, Da Niu and I will go to accompany them, is that okay?"

I heard that we have to wait another three years, so Grandpa Zhao is of course unwilling.

"This matter is settled like this. After getting married, Chunhua will live in Da Niu's house. It's not far away, and it's just a short walk away. Moreover, Chunhua and Wenjie work in the same unit and see each other every day. There's nothing wrong with that. "

Everyone supported the idea of ​​the son and daughter-in-law, even if Li Jiahui was unwilling, she could only reluctantly agree.

Li Jiahui went to see the date and chose a date ten days later.

She also wanted to have the wedding before Zhang Daniu's school started.

The time was a bit rushed, but at that time, there was nothing too particular about weddings, no wedding photos, no new house decoration, no wedding dress, just buy a new set of clothes and wear them.

Because Li Jiahui was not satisfied with the fact that her son lived in Zhang Daniu's house after she got married, Li Jiahui didn't prepare anything for the wedding, but just booked a banquet at the hotel.

(End of this chapter)