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Chapter 27 Don't Get the Cinderella Dream Disease Without That Life

Lu Jia said: "I know, there are rumors in the class that I am a sugar daddy. As for whether it is right or not, half of it."

Mu Wei understood part of the truth and poured himself a glass of wine after hearing the words.

Every time she heard Lu Jia talk about these things, she felt uncomfortable.

Fortunately, Lu Jia doesn't talk about it often, and few people know what the truth is.

It seems that I can mention it today, which is to recognize Bey and Pian Pian in my heart.I think everyone's thoughts can be understood at the same frequency.

On this side, Lu Jia continued: "I once had a boyfriend with good conditions. He was 28 years old, so what's wrong is that I didn't side with the old man, and the beginning of the story was not about dating, but in the way of falling in love. That's right. Where is the place, I do rely on him to go to university, and he pays me the tuition for the freshman year, and also pays me living expenses every month.”

"You must be wondering how to have sex with a boyfriend.

My mother ran away the second year after giving birth to me. She disliked my father's inability to speak. He really couldn't speak. My father made money by riding a three-wheeled bucket in his hometown.

In short, my mother, when she had a chance to recognize a healthy man, she ran away from people, and didn't care about me who was waiting to be fed.

When my father was nine years old, it was smoky and snowing outside, and the car rolled into a ditch.

From then on, I became a tow bottle, and was brought to my uncle's house by my grandmother to live.

When my grandmother was alive, I still had books to read.After my grandmother died, I became a babysitter for my aunt and uncle's family. I suspended school twice to help his family with their children.So I am older than you all.

It is normal to be 20 or 21 years old in sophomore year, right? Pian Pian is 20?One by one is even smaller, right, only eighteen years old, but I am 23 years old this year. "

Bai Yi and Sun Pian Pian poured themselves a glass of wine while listening to this.

The story is too over the top.

It's true that you have a story, and I have wine. If you really talk about it, you can talk for a night.

Lu Jia went on to recount: "Others are studying hard in high school to study for university, and I am worried about what to study if I get admitted. I am anxious to use the vacation to work, after all, even if I apply for a grant, I always have to prepare some living expenses. That's it, I give gas at the gas station in my hometown. My ex-boyfriend is the owner of that gas station, of course, he didn't earn it, his father is better."

Lu Jia analyzed himself frankly and said:
"For me, who was a sophomore in high school at that time, his appearance was like a prince charming in a fairy tale. He was rich and good-looking. My life was too hard, and if someone gave me a little sugar, I would fall into it.

There is a reason to be lazy with him.

Do you think that women themselves may really have a psychological dependence, and I really hope that they can have this and that without having to struggle. Feeling like that is called happiness.

I used to think so too.

But in fact, it is easy to starve to death if you want to rely on beauty to eat.At least I can't.And whenever I want to take shortcuts, reality always slaps me in the face. "

Pian Pian frowned and asked, "Has he had enough with you and dumped you?"

Lu Jia shook his head and denied:
"It's impossible for him to marry a girl like me, he will get married when he is old, understand.

I remember when we broke up, he said, "Lu Jia, you don't want to see a girl like you get married, and you think you have a chance too."

You should analyze, how did those ordinary girls succeed?There may really be the right time, place and people, and good luck.After all, the matter of life is not clear.Some she is a blessed person and don't have to be busy.

For example, the boyfriend she was looking for was self-made, and his parents couldn't restrain him. My ex-boyfriend said he couldn't, and he couldn't do without the support of his family.

For example, her future mother-in-law is a girl from an ordinary family, and she doesn't think it's a good idea to find a daughter-in-law from a poor family.On this point, she also needs her mother-in-law to have no change in her psychology during the process of becoming a rich wife from a small family girl, and not to be strong and not at home.Some ordinary girls become rich wives, and the more critical they become when she becomes a mother-in-law.

It's like all kinds of things. My ex-boyfriend gave me an example with facts. Love is impulsive, and marriage is rational. When it comes to marriage, there are too few people who don't look at the right things.It is precisely because of this that there are very few examples of ordinary girls marrying rich people, so there is only one successful marriage that looks like a propaganda film, which makes many girls mistakenly think that the success rate is very high.

He said that he had also expected success, and hoped that he and I were a special case, so this is the beginning of this love story with me, but I did not expect to try and fail. "

Lu Jia's expression was calm: "He said that he had fought in front of his parents in order to marry me. It doesn't matter if this is true or not, it doesn't matter if it's true or not. Is it really suitable for us to object?"

Pian Pian didn't understand, "If you agree, it's fine to go on."

Unexpectedly, Lu Jia shook his head and said, "That's not the case. The two sides of a relationship are not equal from the very beginning, and the relationship will only become more and more unhealthy in the future. Every time he gives me money, I listen to the voice of some money. It is very willing to give it to me, but I myself will think too much, I always feel that this is selling my self-esteem and it is very humiliating."

After drinking two glasses of wine in a row, Lu Jia continued:

"Also, during the three years I spent with him, the three years of high school, senior year and freshman year, I felt very insecure.

I am always afraid that he will be unhappy, I am always afraid that I am worse than his buddy's girlfriend and I will embarrass him.

Some people have girlfriends who came back from abroad, and their family conditions and themselves also have a halo. When a boyfriend gives a watch, people can give a brand-name belt.Unlike me, who spends a cent on a boyfriend for a cent.

To this end, I have great perseverance and perseverance to learn to dance and play the guitar as quickly as possible, including my Mandarin certificate and fluent foreign language. To be honest, I learned it at first to please him.

Not to mention, those methods of how to act like a spoiled child to make my boyfriend love him more, I just learned a lot, and I watch all the porn, and there is nothing I can't do.I'm definitely working hard enough to be a Cinderella.

I tried very hard to prove to him that, apart from my bad family background, I was all smart.

I tell you, when you try to prove something, it must be the place where you feel the most inferior. "

Well, that made the other three agree.

Lu Jia recalled the old days and sighed:

"Seriously, it's tiring to think about it now, and working with yourself to earn money is two tiring methods.

I have concluded that in my state, even if my ex-boyfriend's family agrees with us to be together, how many more years do you think we can stay together? "

It was the first time that Mu Wei heard some of Lu Jia's words today.

Mu Wei agreed: "It may not go on. When one party always reaches out to the other party, the mentality will be wrong, and sooner or later they will break up. If he doesn't mention separation, you will break up yourself. Because you will be suspicious, like every day. It's like guarding a treasure for fear of being stolen."

Lu Jia said, "Yeah, so from the moment he broke up with me, I knew that my future couldn't depend on finding another rich boyfriend. I won't say whether I can find it again, nor mention me. Whether I have the ability to control rich men is that I don't have the talent to eat that kind of food. I would rather go out and make money by bowing down to clients.

Bey asked Lu Jia: "then how do you feel when you mention your ex-boyfriend now, do you want to meet him again?"

"I won't see you again, I have to pretend that I didn't see you when I meet you, and let him and his new wife live a good life.

I don't hate him either, I even thank him a little bit.After all, without him, my university would not be able to succeed.

At that time, my aunt wanted me to work part-time, but she ran out of factories. At that time, she was not willing to let me go to school regardless of whether she spent her money or not.That is to be able to earn wages immediately and give it to her, which is different.

So I have to admit that the fact that my ex-boyfriend offered me to go to college was tantamount to changing my destiny. "

When the topic came to this point, Lu Jia asked everyone as if he was discussing knowledge:

"You say that many girls hate each other after breaking up, does that mean that the value given by ex-boyfriends is not enough. For example, emotional value is not cared enough, material value has not made them better, and even devalued others, so they will feel in their hearts. There are grudges, including divorce. If you give enough money when dividing property, you can also make arrangements for the children. You said that who can’t live without each other in these years? What do you hate?”

(End of this chapter)