System: Stand up straight!

Chapter 18 Youth and Love

"It's over, it's over. This time, many people will know that the T-shirt Xi Shi who rides upside down and rides a donkey is single. Do you think we should take the opportunity to approve some male T-shirts to sell? Just enter the twenty-five batches and come back fifty-nine for sale. Boys must be embarrassed to bargain and earn half."

After Sun Pian Pian found out that Zhou Yunjing had left, Bey's mood was a little affected.

She thought and interrupted, but her consolation skills have always been very different.

"Really, you can also sell some men's belts wholesale.

When the time comes, I'll get the bowl, you call, you just call..."

Sun Pianpian cleared her throat: "A man has three treasures on his body, a leather shoe belt and a watch. Bey's trouser belt, whoever ties it is not bad..."

"Looks like I really have to beat you up, chattering, you give me a little voice."

The two of them didn't fight a few times a day, as if the day was in vain.

"Ai, I was wrong, let's not make trouble. One-one, seriously, why are you a little emotional? Let's just say, don't all of you beauties have the same sense of loss that you lose powder?"

Bey said: "I feel rude when I lose any powder or lose something. Like tonight, Zhou Yunjing helped us pick up clothes and help us move the goods. I didn't dare to say thank you when I took it over, because I was afraid that he would make persistent efforts. Misunderstanding. But if you think about it normally, if it is a stranger, or an ordinary boy you know, reaching out to help, we should at least say thank you, right?"

It made Zhou Yunjing's exit very decent, and it can even be said that he did a good job, but he did a very average role in the role he was being pursued.

In short, Bey was annoyed that he didn't perform well. Although it seemed that he had quality, he didn't look like he had much quality.

Only then did Sun Pian Pian understand, ah, it turned out that she didn't perform well, she was contemplating and summarizing her experience.

Sun Pian Pian suddenly wanted to inquire: "One by one, tell the truth, what does it feel like to be pursued by someone you don't like?"

"Ask what this is for."

"I'm afraid that one day I will be fooled by lard and fall in love with someone who doesn't like me, playing the role of Zhou Yunjing, and I won't be able to control my sense of proportion. Hurry up, before your heat is over, more Say a few words so I can remember when the alarm bells ring."

When Bey heard this was the reason, she hurriedly brewed some feelings.

After all, this little girl likes handsome guys, and handsome guys are usually superficial.

What if the handsome guy doesn't like Pian Pian and uses Pian Pian, she doesn't want Pian Pian to be hurt.

"It's really annoying to be pursued by people you don't like."

Bey first came to a conclusion before continuing:

"Take me and Zhou Yunjing as an example, Zhou is already a good suitor, he knows enough to stop, of course, if I do not bad, then I will be annoying.

You see, I would waste time worrying that I didn't play well, and that's what he gave me for nothing.And so many people heard him shouting at me tonight, and there will be a lot of discussion because of him.And this is a really good result.

Well, imagine what it would be like if a suitor didn't know enough to stop.

For example, Zhou, in the way he thinks is good for me, will accompany us from tomorrow on the stall and buy us water. If you don't drink it, he will have to give it to you.They will also drive along, and you can't even drive away, under the pretense of being safe for you.

And then make many people know that he is after you.

You go to the cafeteria and he haunts you sitting near you.You get out of class and he follows you.When you leave the dormitory, he is waiting for you with breakfast.When there is a festival, it will be even more powerful, and he will give you gifts.

You said this gift, regardless of whether it is expensive or not, will you return the gift?Back, you will inexplicably spend some more.If you don't reply, he thinks you are slowly being moved by him.

Then you frowned and said to him, can you not do this.

He told you that he was wronged, he just wanted to look at you from a distance, he just wanted to be nice to you without asking for anything in return?Imagine that picture, what would you do? "

Sun Pianpian clenched her fists: "I want to beat him when I hear it. Isn't that harassment?"

Bey nodded: "Right? Anyone who enters it will suffocate, so I said it's annoying to be pursued by people who don't like it. It can also be concluded from this that we don't care who we pursue in the future, we must be measured."

Sun Pian Pian nodded earnestly: "Yes, no matter how much you like it, you must learn to control it. Avoid being moved by yourself and become a burden on others."

Bey saw that Pian Pian really listened to her heart, and continued:

"Let's analyze it again, the psychology of the pursued.

Any idea why I say I'm doing a good job?
Because I rejected it very simply, my character is really good.

Just imagine, if there are some pursuers, what would it be like without me?

Raising a spare tire, anyway, being single, and morality will not be condemned, then if he has to treat me well, I can't help it.

For example, if he has a car, can I use him to deliver goods without having to fall in love with him. If I can use him as a coolie, who will let him chase me?With such a suitor, once I have something, it is much more convenient than asking others.

Know what this is called?Ruining other people's feelings. "

Bey patted Sun Pian Pian's shoulder:

"I'll give you an example, you may be confused. Now suppose we are suitors, chasing a man who doesn't like us, and they don't say no, and they don't tell you that he doesn't like you at all. I'll give it to you. Analyze why he did this."

"why?"

"Because the guy being pursued might think it's always a good thing to have a girl who likes you.

Anyway, I don't have a girlfriend, so I just need a girl to watch movies, eat and play games. It's good to have such a chaperone.

And I usually just want to talk for a few words, ignore her, and she has no right to lose her temper, so why should I simply and neatly reject people who like me.

In case, this girl and I will be more comfortable in the future.

What if this girl did a lot of things that moved me.

If I really don't find someone I really like, it's not that I can't do it. It's better to have a backup girlfriend than no one, right?
This is a man without principles. They can call you a friend first and then your sister, and the day after tomorrow to call you a baby. "

Sun Pian Pian clenched his fist: "Bey, you scumbag thinking, I listen to your assumptions, and I want to draw a knife. How can you make it up like the real thing? No wonder you can write novels."

The knife is right.

Bey thought for a while and added:

"It's kind of like being liked by people who don't like it.

It's like you're hungry, and the person you don't like is like a bowl of sour rice.

Some people are very principled. No matter how hungry you are, you can’t eat sour food. Can't eat it either.

And some people are sour, right? Is it temporarily able to relieve hunger?Is there sea cucumber in it?Wait until the next time you have a good meal to talk about it. If you don’t have a good meal, you will get used to eating bad food all the time. This is what I call the idea of ​​raising a spare tire. "

Sun Pian Pian found that Bei Yi's mouth was bad because he liked someone who didn't like him, and liking it could be compared to sour rice.

"Okay, alright, Pei understands, I know the truth is hard to hear, but please don't give me another example to disgust me.

You'd better say something useful. The question is, how to distinguish whether he really likes it or he is raising a spare tire.

After all, as you said, if it is to raise a spare tire, even if he doesn't like me, he will often tease me and chat with me, and he will not reject me outright. "

Well, Bey is a little less sure when it comes to practicality.

She vaguely said: "I think the other party is interested in you, both of you should have feelings, right? You two should have that kind of ambiguous spark in the process of hooking up. You understand his pretentious reservedness, he understands. You're plotting against him. Then both know what the next step is when the temptation is over."

This time, Sun Pianpian caught a loophole: "No, if he is a master of spare tires, he can clearly not like you, and at the same time play with you ambiguous. How to avoid such a situation?"

"Pick and break, yes, you can't be ambiguous for too long, it will create inertia for yourself. It will also create a relationship for the other party that doesn't move forward. This is unhealthy.

So the meaning is to attack immediately, go and ask him if you like me, try it together if you like it, see if you can eat it together, or pull it down if you don't like it.

If he says, I need to think about it, I think you have to say goodbye to him as soon as possible.After all, it is not the last big question in the college entrance examination. Do you still need to think about it before answering it?

Whoever hesitates, does not like it.Then you quickly change to the next target, so as not to waste time, as long as the target is changed quickly, there is no sadness but love. "

This is what the old lady said.

right, sister-in-law?
You won't be off work again.

Unexpectedly, an old sister-in-law passed away today, and a dormitory aunt came.

The dormitory aunt hugged her shoulders and walked out of the shadows:
"Oh, it's been a long time since I listened to the two of you. It would be great if you had the ability to write your graduation thesis. This guy has a set of love skills, so it's useless for me to tell you.

Who doesn't have a theoretical basis for love?

If you go to the street and grab any aunt and big sister, she can give you two sentences.

But whoever enters the field will be confused, whoever touches and who loses, will cry no matter how much you understand. "

The aunt smiled and continued:

"Don't believe me, in this building, I can see or crying people in one day. The same goes for the male bed, and the crying and peeing are more conspicuous and humiliating than our girls.

Listening to your auntie Chen, when a boy is single, he will sing and pray to Buddha, and a girl who secretly loves sings I secretly fall in love with you. What else can make him go to love Normandy.

When you wait for someone, you will love if you sing, but if you are dumped, you don't care about my tears, you are a wolf in sheep's clothing. "

Bey and Sun Pian Pian together: "Hahahahahaha..."

The dormitory auntie couldn't help laughing and crying: "Go back to the building, haha, I'm waiting to close the door."

(End of this chapter)