System: Stand up straight!

Chapter 178 Navigating the Lost Way Is Being Honest to Yourself

Lu Jiazhen started to cut the steak, and sipped the red wine by himself: "Well, yes, there is a reason for expensive. Sour, astringent, bitter, and finally sweet."

Gong Licheng stood up very gentlemanly, and poured another half cup for Lu Jia.

While turning the red wine bottle in his hand, he thought to himself:
His family Lu Jia did it on purpose, they had already mentioned Qingyu, but she didn't talk about it.

Is Tongtong also living this kind of life?

At this time, anyone who has anything to do with Qingyu and has not been angered is really doing well.

Gong Licheng sat down, cleared his throat first, and then said:

"Why don't you say, what is a relationship, you have to be together for a period of time, two people need to understand each other, this process is essential.

But why do some people talk about it for a few years rather than some for a month, talking about what you eat and drink every day, and talking about it for a hundred years is just as good.Is that called understanding?

Being together for ten years does not mean that the relationship is deep.And even if we got together in the end, when the incident happened, you would find that it was like knowing him on the first day.

As for those who talked for a month, if you have encountered problems, opinions, quarrels, and slowly reintegrated, learned to give in, tolerate, and understand each other more deeply, this is called being together every day is really a day, and the foundation of real benefits lies in There, in the future, it will be flat, what do you think. "

Lu Jia's expression remained unchanged, she wanted to see how Gong Licheng would talk step by step: "Yes."

Gong Licheng was affirmed, he gave himself an example, and said:

"Like this time, you left for eight days, didn't tell me about the ticket change, and didn't tell me when you came back. You went to take a shower and stayed for one night, and didn't even make a phone call.

If I hadn't called Tongtong, I wouldn't have known you were back.

Jiajia, if you change to a boyfriend who doesn’t know you well, will he lose his temper and ask you, your phone is broken even if you are busy?A little more on the outline and on the line, do you have me in your heart?

But I'm different, I know you're with Bey, and I understand the relationship between you ladies, so you have to be wholehearted when you're with Bey, and whoever goes to take a bath still holds the phone, and can you devote yourself to drinking? "

Lu Jia couldn't help laughing: "After getting off the plane, the battery of the mobile phone was indeed dead, and after entering it, I drank too much. I will pay attention in the future, I shouldn't forget it, or you will miss it."

In fact, it's more about venting anger, but let's not talk about it, it seems unreasonable.

I believe Gong Licheng also understands.

Gong Licheng really understood that he would be satisfied if he could express his discomfort and get the result he wanted.There's no need to mind Lu Jia's excuses, saying that you don't think that way, you're just an excuse, isn't there something wrong with being picky?

If you don't tell the truth, life will be easier.

"So, you see, there must be a process of understanding.

If I didn't understand the depth of the relationship between you and Bei Yi, I would definitely ask you about the importance of your boyfriend and your good friend.

We also have to run in with each other.Even knowing you, I feel neglected.

Where the two sides did not do well, just like the two of us, after talking about it, and then making changes, then there is no bad relationship, what do you think? "

Lu Jia thought, ah, such a step-by-step method led to Ye Qingyu.

It was really embarrassing for Gong Licheng, afraid of getting burned, but still wanted to say a few words for his brother, looking at her face carefully, she Lu Jia, what made Gong Licheng so careful.

Don't you just like it?

In fact, the relationship between men and women is like this. Because they care, they will keep a low profile, as if they have done something wrong.

Don't say that Gong Licheng is right, there is no need to be your grandson.

Even if he was wrong, if he didn't care about you, he wouldn't be your grandson, so it's not up to you to say he's right or wrong.

Thinking of this, Lu Jia softened her heart a lot: "Gong Licheng, don't go around, I feel uncomfortable hearing you go around. Don't you just want to express, if those two people still have feelings, sit down and talk, let me persuade Bei Yi ,right?"

"Yes, if you don't talk about being considerate, you have to be you. It's not in vain to be a few years older than Bey."

Lu Jia looked at Gong Licheng: "Don't wear a high hat. The problem is that Bei Yi doesn't want to talk about it. She doesn't want to sit down and have a good talk. After talking about Ye Qingyu's performance, listen to his promise and wait for him to change. If you say she doesn't want to, how can we talk about it?" Persuasion. The first thing Bayes does when he returns to school is to apply to the school to delete the post about Lin Quan's high-rise building, and Bayesian's post about Ye Qingyu. It has been deleted."

Gong Licheng was puzzled: "How did this happen? To put it bluntly, Qingyu was jealous because Lin Quan appeared. Qingyu has Su, what is his name? That's not a big deal Son. Explain the relationship clearly, and tell Qingyu not to distrust his girlfriend so much in the future, won’t it be enough?”

Lu Jia put down the knife and fork, and couldn't eat anymore. Hearing this, he frowned and said, "I find you men are really interesting. No matter how complicated things are, it's easy to go to you. Just look at the result, right? Then the process , as for the disappointment and sadness of a woman, those feelings can be ignored, right?"

Lu Jia and Gong Licheng said, let's just talk about the smallest impact.

One drives an eye-catching sports car, and the other drives a very expensive Bentley, and they go to fight in the community.

Do you know how many people went to their floors to watch the excitement that day?

Do you know that when we take the elevator with others, according to the floor we are on, the eyes of the aunts will be gossipy?

Do you know how low-key Bay is usually?
If it was Beiy's home, it would be better. Beiy would feel that since those two people were brought in, they would have to bear it because they were pointed at.

But that was her home, Pianpian's home, although they really didn't care, but Beiy would feel uncomfortable when she was there.

Lu Jia continued: "What's more, this is the smallest trouble. What happened during this period, Gong Licheng, you know better than me."

Gong Licheng immediately admitted: "Let's sit down, no wonder Bei Yi is angry, I have to say that Qingyu seems to have something wrong. Even if Qingyu wants to save face in front of the few of us, he can't order his girlfriend in front of a friend. This point of designation is wrong. Teaching your son in front of you and your wife behind your back are all counted. Besides, can you gain face just by sitting down? How much more face can we get? Don’t we all stop laughing?”

Don't be dumped, only then can you be capable.

To put it bluntly, don't be sad if you get dumped, there will be another one if you don't have this one, if you are old and unrestrained, then you will be more capable.

Of course, if you are in a chic state, you won't be angry at all.Just laugh it off as if watching the excitement, and stop contacting me, okay?Especially Qingyu, who is very good at dismissive, few of them can compare.

The best way to deal with it is, the next time your girlfriend will never have dinner with her ex-boyfriend again, where can she tell you where to go, and you can teach her behind the scenes, so that she feels that it is a mistake not to tell you, that is called more more capable.

In the end, I didn't achieve any purpose, and it was turned into pornography, and after the pornography, I regretted it too much.

No need to ask, Qingyu must be having a hard time these days, nothing.

"I asked Tongtong, and Tongtong said that there was also the past of his uncle. Did Bei Yi misunderstand Qingyu's character?"

Lu Jia glanced at Gong Licheng, and asked back: "Is there no problem with your character, are you sure? You guys were really messed up in the past, and that's why I took my anger out on you."

Look, it was implicated in the end.

Gong Licheng poured himself a glass of wine and sighed before speaking, but when he raised his head again, he chose to be honest: "Jiajia, let's have a discussion. From now on, just talk about the facts, don't be angry."

"Okay."

"Then I'll say it. I don't know if all of you think that way, or what.

I don't think me and Qingyu, we objectify women, disrespect women.

You can say other mistakes, but we really don't recognize this mistake.

When it comes to men and women, everyone is an adult, it's all yours, and there is no need to go online. "

"Gong Licheng."

"You answered calmly, then listen to me.

Everyone is, if you don't have a good impression, you won't be together, or you can be an uncle or aunt on the road?

But this favor, I admit, we men have an initial impression of women.

This woman can get along happily for a while, or she can marry and go home.

There will be a preliminary judgment.

Just like you women also have this kind of judgment. This man is a handsome guy but his family is poor. You don’t want to marry him, and you feel that marrying him is not acceptable to your family, but you can get along for a while and have the good times you once had.

Or position yourself as that kind of suitor, and let him pass the boring time, eat together, and go shopping.

There may also be a preliminary judgment that this person is being taken advantage of. For example, a girl once classified me like this, and this Big Brother Gong is someone who can fund and play with me.Buy a bag and buy something.Being with him can satisfy material pleasures.

See if I'm telling the truth.

Then you say, a girl with this kind of thinking, can you say that she is objectifying us men and disrespecting us men?

Adult single men and women, it's not that destroying the family involves ethics and morality, it's nothing more than whether they want to or not.If others define me as a bag buyer, then if I am willing to be a bag buyer, or even a spare tire, what does it have to do with others.Why not respect objectification. "

Gong Licheng took a sip of wine:
"Therefore, there is really no need to rise to a very complicated level.

I don't want to argue with you about right or wrong, but to be honest, we just feel that we have agreed in advance that in dealing with certain relationships, it won't be troublesome to end the show.

Because it involves money, don't open your mouth after breaking up.And whether there will be a big breakup, which will affect the company.

Isn't the purpose of the prenuptial agreement to agree in advance to avoid trouble in the future?
And the person who will let us agree in advance, or that sentence, is basically the first impression, you are enough to be a wife with me, but I am still interested in you, then you agree, the other girl agrees, It's fine after a while, or just give it a go, in case you can become a daughter-in-law.In this way, there is no beginning of deception, in fact, this is how it happened.

Don't say it, it becomes a business after negotiating this kind of thing.It's really a business, how can they get married everywhere, and they are tempted, and they feel that the more they get along, the more compatible they are.

There are also people who took her as a marriage partner at the very beginning, but became the object of play everywhere?
Why? "

Gong Licheng frowned and looked at Lu Jia: "So this is divided into people, there are variables, and the emotional world is like this. It's not that I buy you and you sell me. You guys can't think about it that way. We are really not bad. to that extent.

What's more, how Qingyu treats Bei Yi, we have to speak from the bottom of our hearts, don't deny it, deny everything, I am wronged for my brother. "

"No no no, Bei Yi doesn't talk to him anymore, it's useless for you to explain Hua to me."

"...That's true. I hope you don't fall into a misunderstanding and misunderstand me so much."

Lu Jia looked at Gong Licheng, and suddenly said: "I bent over, so I accept your defense well."

"Ok?"

Lu Jia said:
"It is said that girls have to stand up straight to make money in order to be respected.

But in this real world, how could it be possible to stand upright completely.

When I first entered the workplace, I imagined fighting a lot, and finally I have the ability, but no accident, a legal aid earns hundreds of dollars, and they all compete for the allocation quota.

Even if you have been working for many years, don't you need to toast, socialize, or smile to others in order to accept a case?

I have worked too many jobs.Including going out to sell four-piece gift sets now, and drinking with the manager of the exhibition center to prevent Beiy and the others from getting in touch with too many people, I will go.

So I am not so black and white, understand the world.

But I think that although Bei Yi was not allowed to go out to contact the ugly world, maybe Bei Yi and the others also understand this truth.

Because a few of us can become friends, including Tongtong, because we appreciate each other for one thing in common, that is, a girl who stands when she can make money standing, bends if she needs to bend down, or even squats down. No matter how poor or difficult alone, don't lie down.

It's great, on the road to face the cruel society, there are still a few people who go along the way, even if we may stumble, we would rather stubbornly pretend to be stupid and not see the reality clearly.

And what I think Bei Yi can't accept is that he, Ye Qingyu, can find any kind of girl.

It can be dealt with, but if there is a problem in the end, it doesn't work, that's fine.But the man said in advance that he has no future with you, and you still agree, what kind of girl is this?How about shame, self-esteem.

And you can also want girls who lie flat and rely on men, and you have found more than one such girl.Your so-called character, that's all it is, you men know how to look good, it's really messy.You too, still have the face to plausibly speak for me. "

After Lu Jia finished speaking, she threw the napkin on the table, and finally made her angry.

Gong Licheng hurriedly caught up with his suit, "Isn't that the bad aesthetics in the past? Besides, there are few good girls like you, so I want to marry you as soon as I meet. We can't let you go to the market, we have seen bad ones Only then will you know how precious good things are, this is called knowing the pearl with the eye of wisdom.”

"You don't do this."

Gong Licheng blocked the elevator and squeezed in. After the elevator door closed, he could still be heard asking Lu Jia: "Okay, let's not talk about that. Which exhibition manager asked you to drink? He doesn't want to live, does he?"

"Gong Licheng, if you dare to find fault with me and affect the deal I finally negotiated, I'll drink for nothing. I'm in a hurry with you. Then we two will be defeated too!"

……

On the fifth day after the breakup, Ye Qingyu saw Gong Licheng, who had coaxed his wife well, and Zhou Zhe, who had returned from a business trip.

Through this dialogue with Lu Jia, Gong Licheng felt that he respected and loved Lu Jia more.Sometimes chatting or even quarreling is a kind of mutual understanding, so of course all the time must be squeezed out for Lu Jia.

But Ye Qingyu didn't expect that when he entered the restaurant with Gong Licheng and Zhou Zhe, he also saw Bei Yi.

A sudden meeting.

At this time, Bei Yi was upset at the front desk. In order to thank her for introducing the order, she invited Da Zhuang and Gao Bei to dinner.Sister Gao Bei has already taken Brother Da Zhuang's car and rushed to work, but when she took out her purse, she found that she had forgotten it.

what happened to her.

Bei hurriedly asked the front desk: "Excuse me, can you lend me a charger? My mobile phone is dead. When I can make calls, I will ask a friend to send money."

"Bei, what's going on?" Gong Licheng asked in the lobby.

Bei Yi looked back, and first saw Ye Qingyu standing next to Gong Licheng.

Bei Yi looked away and found that Zhou Zhe was nodding at her. She also nodded politely with a smile, then stepped forward and said to Gong Licheng, "Brother Gong, I forgot my wallet, can you lend me some money?"

Ye Qingyu heard a familiar voice and heard these words, suddenly couldn't bear it, suppressed the ups and downs in his heart, and hurriedly turned to look to the side.

On Gong Licheng's side, "What else can I borrow, brother will pay for you, which table?" And he took out another wad of money to Bei Yi: "Here, then you go back and spend it."

To make fun of Bei Yi, it seems to be giving her money to buy candy: "I will have money when I go back, I don't want it."

During the whole process, neither Ye Qingyu nor Bei Yi even nodded.They pretended to be strangers they didn't know.

Ye Qingyu stood in the middle of the elevator, and as the elevator door was about to close, he kept looking at the beautiful figure who was walking towards the gate.

And as the elevator doors were completely closed, the girl also pushed open the revolving door in the lobby and walked out.

　I never said that Ye's past was right, and Tongtong's emotion also made it clear that she broke up because it was wrong, didn't she?Then why do some readers leave comments to the extent that the three views are upright or not.Objectifying and disrespecting women are all here.And the more extreme comments, if other readers dare to have different opinions, it would be cheap to choose reconciliation.There are also clearly not written that way, but they still argue between the lines to find faults. I think even if I explain what I said, maybe this kind of people can find faults.It made me use different supporting roles to explain, that's enough, this chapter is over, and the rest is all about the plot, if you don't understand it, just let it go.I also really don't understand this kind of readers, are you talking about anger or using this matter to vent your emotions, if it is to vent, what to do with the rest of the people who read books.This is the so-called banner of the Three Views that you hold high. It’s okay if everyone chooses to be different, isn’t it?I saw an old book friend leave a message saying that Taozi knows that society is like this, so I hope the novel can promote positive energy. I have thought about this point, and it really should.But I can write with positive energy, but if I can’t, I can’t teach right and wrong by inserting chapters and chapters. The novel needs to be complete, and the characters need to be full of flesh and blood, not according to how to write.It cannot be written like a template.To make an inappropriate analogy, the God of Wealth will take care of Fang Yuelao's disconnection, so don't sing like that, sing positive energy red songs, the province's influence will be deeper, no, it's not critical literature.I'll earn money for a mask, and I want to buy two new sets of pajamas for the Chinese New Year. The pajamas are all worn out. Don't ask too much of me. Let's understand each other.
　　
　
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